Dump the crazy one. Throw it in the sane one.
Dump the crazy one. Throw it in the sane one.
There, but for the grace of God, goes John Bradford
My aim, then, was to whip the rebels, to humble their pride, to follow them to their inmost recesses, and make them fear and dread us. Fear is the beginning of wisdom.
I am tired and sick of war. Its glory is all moonshine. It is only those who have neither fired a shot nor heard the shrieks and groans of the wounded who cry aloud for blood, for vengeance, for desolation.
While I appreciate why the others have said the things they have, I also appreciate that you are in a difficult emotional position.
Consider this: Why did you love her, what were those things, and are they still there? It sounds to me like she is no longer the gilr you love, and you are still in love with the memory.
I sympathise, but if she is not going to be that girl again and is just going to use you instead then you don't have anything more to do with her.
Recognising that, however, doesn't automatically leave you free to persue the oither girl.
"If it wears trousers generally I don't pay attention."
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Dude, why 15? Get a 25 year old, you'll love it until you find a girl younger and experienced enough to be your wife.
Trust me on this one, experienced girls are just incredible. And if they look good, you're in for the ride of your life.![]()
Ja mata, TosaInu. You will forever be remembered.
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Swords Made of Letters - 1938. The war is looming in France - and Alexandre Reythier does not have much time left to protect his country. A novel set before the war.
A Painted Shield of Honour - 1313. Templar Knights in France are in grave danger. Can they be saved?
I would say get rid of the ex, it's obvious you're her fallback guy. Go on to No Contact, don't take her phone calls, don't reply to texts or emails, if she says hi while you're walking down the street, nod and keep walking.
The young one sounds like she would be the much, much better option of the two.
Go to another country. Seriously.
Names, secret names
But never in my favour
But when all is said and done
It's you I love
If you're so desperate not to give up on the ex-girlfriend, get back with her. You'll know soon enough if it's going to work or not (by the sounds of it, no) and it'll also give the other girl time to 'grow up' a bit to make the age gap less...controversial.
Don't let yourself get taken advantage of though. Ex-girlfriend sounds like a drama queen who always needs some crisis to be going on, it might seem noble playing rescuer but don't get stuck in the role because it's difficult to get out of. Anyway, all I feel like writing on this.
Shes lost all her friends as well now...
She caused me to fail high school...
I like her. Even though shes changed, its easy to see the old her there. Its beginning to win back. Plus...shes helped me...a lot. in the same way I/the backroom helped her.
The younger one also strongly reminds me of a girl I used to go out with, before I was on here. Different enough for it not to make me think I only like her because she reminds me of the other, but close enough that maybe I do.
Good fun.
Last edited by pevergreen; 10-21-2009 at 01:42.
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