Women...Sigh.

[Philippus Flavius Homovallumus]

The female mistery is no more a mistery once you know it's not.

Females base their world on feelings. Ratio pretty much cannot bother them if they don't want to (they never want to). Their feeling knows no to time such as present or past. Also, they never want to see the "bigger picture". It just doesn't interest them.

For example, they where once pissed by you. Maybe ten years ago. But when they see you, they remember the pissing and because it's in their mind then they are pissed again (what else?).

In your example, it's quite interesting if the friend to whom she said she's pissed is female or male.

If the friend's female as well, then
a) you didn't get her feeling because you're young and b) leave her alone, she'll come to you or not.

If the friend's male, then
it most likely has nothing to do with YOU. It has to do with the friend alone.

Wisdom here, the trick is creating the right feeling, and working on trust so that you can find a way to translate your thought processes for each other.

Communication is key, in view of which, dishonesty is fatal.

[Mithrandir]

Maybe you should ask Megas M. for advice.

He seems to have some succes with women...

Other than that, confront the girl you're talking about, or put her on Real Life Ignore. (RLI ©)

[Fragony]

- Fully understand that that they are a person, they really are
- you should have understood what's wrong in the first place
- and