Video games 'worse' than porn

[Fragony]

What the hell is wrong with you people, didn't we make clear, well at least a number of times, that it is just a fantasy? Yes because the word ' rape' means so much it's that much hotter when being dominated if that is your thing no? Makes no sense to you? Let them be, or feel dirty at your next performance of whatever shakespeare

[KukriKhan]

What the hell is wrong with you people, didn't we make clear, well at least a number of times, that it is just a fantasy? Yes because the word ' rape' means so much it's that much hotter when being dominated if that is your thing no? Makes no sense to you? Let them be, or feel dirty at your next performance of whatever shakespeare

Nothing wrong with them. The very word "rape" denotes an actual violent act, and some folks here, myself included, have been affected by actual rapes - and therefore naturally shy away from using the word in any kind of light-hearted manner. I realize you are only using the word for shorthand, to mean "ravished play-acting"; but you gotta respect the usage that your peers here use.

[HoreTore]

Nothing wrong with them. The very word "rape" denotes an actual violent act, and some folks here, myself included, have been affected by actual rapes - and therefore naturally shy away from using the word in any kind of light-hearted manner. I realize you are only using the word for shorthand, to mean "ravished play-acting"; but you gotta respect the usage that your peers here use.

But the thing is, Kukri, "playrape" and "rape fantasy" are the terms people use when describing this thing... It isn't something me or Frags just made up on the spot, its a a term that's been used for years to describe it....

[KukriKhan]

But the thing is, Kukri, "playrape" and "rape fantasy" are the terms people use when describing this thing... It isn't something me or Frags just made up on the spot, its a a term that's been used for years to describe it....

Indeed. I believe you. That's why the thread is still open, so you and Fragony could explain yourselves, and not just get branded as 2 "pro-rape" guys. I think the other readers/posters get the gist of what you're talking about. In return, you fellas need to respect their inclinations; that the very word can and does conjure up hurtful memories - not that they're a bunch prude guys or word-police.

Is it possible for us to get back to pr0n vs vid-game?

[Fragony]

"pro-rape" guys.

Excuse me?

Sure, but somebody who has been raped or has a close friend/relative or maybe even a partner who has been raped, will have a serious issue with people playing "rape games" for fun.

People get tortured to death, SM wrong? Many people have been sadistic.

Once again, I am not into it. But I am not going to judge it either, they have fun what's it to me.

[Sasaki Kojiro]

But the thing is, Kukri, "playrape" and "rape fantasy" are the terms people use when describing this thing... It isn't something me or Frags just made up on the spot, its a a term that's been used for years to describe it....

People use ****, ****, and **** to describe sex as well, yes? Words not made up on the spot, terms that have been used for years...

[HoreTore]

People use ****, ****, and **** to describe sex as well, yes? Words not made up on the spot, terms that have been used for years...

I did not know that "rape fantasy" was among those terms. I mean; "schoolgirl fantasy" doesn't imply an urge to have sex with a juvenile, does it? No, it only implies having sex with someone in a white shirt, tie and short skirt....

[Beskar]

I did not know that "rape fantasy" was among those terms. I mean; "schoolgirl fantasy" doesn't imply an urge to have sex with a juvenile, does it? No, it only implies having sex with someone in a white shirt, tie and short skirt....

It implies the desire of having sex with nubile young girl in her teens. (depending on area, pre-nubile) in her school uniform.

This is usually expressed with females in their twenties and thirties with plat short skits which are too short for school requirements, seethrough white blouses, etc as you see around town on hen-nights and the poor excuse of "porn" that is everywhere.

However, the desire and what happens is different. You could argue that those taking part in "playrape" really want to rape others themselves.

[Fragony]

It implies the desire of having sex with nubile young girl in her teens. (depending on area, pre-nubile) in her school uniform.

Yeah it would and so what. Don't you ever have a laugh when wrestling in the sack.

[HoreTore]

It implies the desire of having sex with nubile young girl in her teens. (depending on area, pre-nubile) in her school uniform.

It most certainly does not.

[Fragony]

Nothing wrong with them. The very word "rape" denotes an actual violent act, and some folks here, myself included, have been affected by actual rapes - and therefore naturally shy away from using the word in any kind of light-hearted manner. I realize you are only using the word for shorthand, to mean "ravished play-acting"; but you gotta respect the usage that your peers here use.

But I am not using it lighthearted that is their actual fantasy. I am a bit amazed here, it has nothing to do with rape, or did you commit genocide when you were playing cowboys and indians.

[Andres]

But I am not using it lighthearted that is their actual fantasy. I am a bit amazed here, it has nothing to do with rape, or did you commit genocide when you were playing cowboys and indians.

Sure, but somebody who has been raped or has a close friend/relative or maybe even a partner who has been raped, will have a serious issue with people playing "rape games" for fun.

To build on your metaphore, to them, you're not playing cowboys and indians, but you're playing genocide which is very distasteful and upsetting for someone who has experienced "the real thing".

[HoreTore]

Sure, but somebody who has been raped or has a close friend/relative or maybe even a partner who has been raped, will have a serious issue with people playing "rape games" for fun.

You don't think I have?

Is it possible for us to get back to pr0n vs vid-game?

The thread has reached page 2 now. Backroom tradition states that we may now discuss any subject except the original one....

[Beskar]

To build on your metaphore, to them, you're not playing cowboys and indians, but you're playing genocide which is very distasteful and upsetting for someone who has experienced "the real thing".

I was thinking the same, but you saying that example gave me the mental image of a bunch of kids with one of those plastic kitchen sets, when one of them with a red scarf on their arm ends up saying "come on now, time to get in the oven".

[Viking]

What the hell is wrong with you people, didn't we make clear, well at least a number of times, that it is just a fantasy? Yes because the word ' rape' means so much it's that much hotter when being dominated if that is your thing no? Makes no sense to you? Let them be, or feel dirty at your next performance of whatever shakespeare

Well, hello.

I think comments like

Rape is actually a very common female fantasy.

no matter how thoroughly explained in detail, fully makes sense. "Rape fantasy", OK, but "fantasising about getting raped"? No way. Time for a reminder that you are always responsible for your own wording. If it is a relatively "common" way to talk about a certain domination fantasy like this, time for a reminder that someone do not know what they are talking about.

And just how did people reproduce before that then? Heck, how do the Amish make babies without porn to tell them how to do it?

It is not necessary to have a "good sex life" in order to get offspring, as far as I know.

[Skullheadhq]

Oh damn, are we advocating rape now...

[Ser Clegane]

Oh damn, are we advocating rape now...

No

Ambiguous wording is not equivalent to condoning rape