Don't complain about it! they'll all make definitive peace when you'll get close to them 0_o. In my Sweboz campaing, I'm now about 200BC, and i played slowly (until romans attacked me) I stayed in germania until 230... and took Britain around 225BC, but stayed in germania on the continent. rome, every turn, was at war with cartage, and epeiros was at war every turn with i don't remember who. and every turn i received their message of war... then peace the turn after, then war... ect. until i went tired of romans full stack and i prepared an invasion army that went rampage in rome and conquered every cities up to Capua (without segesta) during that time, Aedui made peace with arverni, rome, with carthage, and Epeiros with thweir ennemy... and of corse I've been attacked on 3 fronts... So while I was bothered when every one was at war every turn, i far more prefered when i could wage a single front war... i had almost a 100 years peace with Aedui, the same with Arverni...