So, we need more gay people to have kids...

[TinCow]

First of all, the unequal levels is very much part of the equation, wouldn't you say?

It's part of the equation to the extent that the argument is that homosexuals can be good parents. It is not part of the equation to the extent that it is used as proof that homosexuals are better parents than heterosexuals. To make the latter conclusion, it is necessary to compare families where the only difference is sexual orientation. The proper heterosexual comparison family would be something like a pair of early-30s professionals who adopt or use IVF, instead of conceiving naturally.

[Seamus Fermanagh]

It's part of the equation to the extent that the argument is that homosexuals can be good parents. It is not part of the equation to the extent that it is used as proof that homosexuals are better parents than heterosexuals. To make the latter conclusion, it is necessary to compare families where the only difference is sexual orientation. The proper heterosexual comparison family would be something like a pair of early-30s professionals who adopt or use IVF, instead of conceiving naturally.

Gold star. Someone was paying attention in research methods.

[Fragony]

Gold star. Someone was paying attention in research methods.

At least award me a silver for saying exactly the same

[Kadagar_AV]

Gold star. Someone was paying attention in research methods.

I agree, fully.

Test is clearly not "fair" as the playing field is not fair. I might, however, stress one point. And this is an important one! It is not fair, because... think about it... Gay people need to do a logical decision and as well work towards getting children, whereas heterosexuals can dumbfundle in the backseat and get the same result.

As you see, the playing field is not equal, nor will it ever be. So to disregard this research because of it, seems rather unfair.

I can of course agree that the inequality diminishes the results somewhat, however, please do remember that you weight this against the Redneck/Taliban idea of "them gays should not have kids".

Against that argument, this research should have some sort of value, no?

So again, an absolute GOLD STAR for noticing that the research is not that easy to use in a comparative way. However, looking at the larger picture at hand, I hope you will concede that this research at the very much ripped the Talibans of their claim?

Or am I being silly here?

PS: Archaic, not arcane... Thanks for correcting me, tricky business this language thing :(

[Philippus Flavius Homovallumus]

I agree, fully.

Test is clearly not "fair" as the playing field is not fair. I might, however, stress one point. And this is an important one! It is not fair, because... think about it... Gay people need to do a logical decision and as well work towards getting children, whereas heterosexuals can dumbfundle in the backseat and get the same result.

As you see, the playing field is not equal, nor will it ever be. So to disregard this research because of it, seems rather unfair.(

Your point only holds up in a promiscuous society, because if two people determine to remain celebate until marriage they are as unlikely to concieve by accident as a homosexual couple.

So I could take your research and declare that it proves our lax sexual morality is hurting our children; which we all knew anyway.

[Kadagar_AV]

Your point only holds up in a promiscuous society, because if two people determine to remain celebate until marriage they are as unlikely to concieve by accident as a homosexual couple.

So I could take your research and declare that it proves our lax sexual morality is hurting our children; which we all knew anyway.

I agree, that is why atheism should spread more, so we get more people taking responsibility.

Or were you one of those Christians holding on to that silly belief that christianity has a somewhat good impact on sexual morals? I am just joking of course, I am sure you are an educated man and well read up (you are aware of, say, teenage pregnancy rates among Christians compared to atheists?).

But maybe we should leave religion out of this, to not turn it into a flame fest.



So what was your point, to make it clear, mate?

You want us all to live in celibacy until marriage, and gays not to have kids, unless they marry (which they should not be allowed to do? Kind of a catch 22 you got going for you there. Or?)

Anyway, you might want to elaborate on your point, I am afraid I didn't quite get your views on homosexuality and children.

[Rhyfelwyr]

Teh gays can do what they want in their own private sphere, I'm not so sure I like children being brought into it. Because as you all know, the nuclear family has existed throughout all of human history.

tbh, my only argument is that it just doesn't seem right. Certainly, I'm sure many homosexual couples would do a better job that these chavs that churn out babies to live off the benefits, but I still think there's no substitute for the traditional nuclear family. Not that I'm one of these crazy pro-family people either, ideas like family holidays etc really creep me out, seems like a little cult or something.

Also, I suspect that homophobia may be a perfectly natural reaction, wheras toleration is more something that has to be socially engineered. This is based of the purely anecdotal evidence that the more 'uneducated' people I know are very much homophobic (whether religious or not), but in the more educated environment of university, you would get castrated for saying anything remotely homophobic. But it makes sense really, it's natural to not like what's different, hence homophobia is natural.

[Kadagar_AV]

Oh my, where to begin with this one.

Teh gays can do what they want in their own private sphere

... but they should not be allowed to show their love to the world? You, for some reason, think you have a say in who people love and not? What would give you this right, I might ask?

I'm not so sure I like children being brought into it. Because as you all know, the nuclear family has existed throughout all of human history.

Source? Gay relationships has been very highly esteemed in some time periods. And your comment about bringing children into "it" is just tasteless, borderline hateful. You think gay children will have gay kids, or what? That they will somehow make them gay?

tbh, my only argument is that it just doesn't seem right.

That does indeed seem to be your only argument, and a tasteless one at that.

Certainly, I'm sure many homosexual couples would do a better job that these chavs that churn out babies to live off the benefits, but I still think there's no substitute for the traditional nuclear family.

So how about adoption? Better a child starve to death than being adopted by "Teh Gays"? And by the way, the research I posted clearly shows that there is a substitute to the nuclear family that seems to be working, so what was your point again?

Not that I'm one of these crazy pro-family people either, ideas like family holidays etc really creep me out, seems like a little cult or something.

It is hard for me to reply to this. Forum guidelines clearly dictate that I should attack your statement, not you as a person. But when you as a statement bring in craziness in relation to yourself those guidelines seem to be very grey of colour indeed. I think I will just leave it.

Also, I suspect that homophobia may be a perfectly natural reaction, wheras toleration is more something that has to be socially engineered. This is based of the purely anecdotal evidence that the more 'uneducated' people I know are very much homophobic (whether religious or not), but in the more educated environment of university, you would get castrated for saying anything remotely homophobic. But it makes sense really, it's natural to not like what's different, hence homophobia is natural

I dont quite get you here?

This means that you are aware that homophobia is more common among religious people and [removed] less educated persons, or did I misread you?

[Beskar]

Teh gays can do what they want in their own private sphere, I'm not so sure I like children being brought into it. Because as you all know, the nuclear family has existed throughout all of human history.

I thought they existed since August 1945?

[Philippus Flavius Homovallumus]

I agree, that is why atheism should spread more, so we get more people taking responsibility.

My experience is that taking responsibility is more a matter of character than belief.

Or were you one of those Christians holding on to that silly belief that christianity has a somewhat good impact on sexual morals? I am just joking of course, I am sure you are an educated man and well read up (you are aware of, say, teenage pregnancy rates among Christians compared to atheists?).

Sincere Christian morality does have a good impact on sexual morality, insincere mouthing of society's mores does not. I am aware of the statistical reality in America, but I am also aware that it is a particularly American phenomenon, not repeated to the same degree elsewhere in the developed world.

Did you know that most teenage pregnancies in Britain are poor people?

But maybe we should leave religion out of this, to not turn it into a flame fest.

Maybe we should, but you brought it up.

So what was your point, to make it clear, mate?

You want us all to live in celibacy until marriage, and gays not to have kids, unless they marry (which they should not be allowed to do? Kind of a catch 22 you got going for you there. Or?)

Anyway, you might want to elaborate on your point, I am afraid I didn't quite get your views on homosexuality and children.

My point was very simple: This data can be used to support a variety of conclusions, only one of which supports homosexual parents over heterosexuals. What if I were to produce a data set demonstrating that parents who remained abstinant produced better children than those who jumped into bed with anything that moved?

At the end of the day, if you don't have sex you can't get pregnant. So if you have sex and get pregnant don't come crying to me, or pretend you aren't responsible.

[Kadagar_AV]

Philipvs Vallindervs Calicvla, No matter the fun it would bring me, I will leave the religious debate aside. Sorry for bringing it up..

As to your second point... Let's skip the "who is BETTER" point altogether, shall we? And focus on my main point, that gays are valid parents.

I think some people got stuck on "who is best", and lost the main point...

Are you arguing that gays are not valid? Or are you not? With the research at hand

[Seamus Fermanagh]

Your point only holds up in a promiscuous society, because if two people determine to remain celebate until marriage they are as unlikely to concieve by accident as a homosexual couple.

So I could take your research and declare that it proves our lax sexual morality is hurting our children; which we all knew anyway.

You couldn't prove that either. People tend to over-ascribe explanative power to survey instruments and correlational studies. They are useful tools but have their limitations. It is feasible to pound in a nail with a shovel -- but you're much more likely to screw it up instead. Try a hammer. Each tool has its place in the kit.

Kad:

It does NOT automatically mean that the archaic or strict moralist positions are wrong (though I believe they are). It does SUGGEST that such positions, on this issue, aren't accurate and sets up the basis for a study that COULD give you the proof you seek. TinCow is very much correct about the kind of setup that would be needed to make that claim.

Frags:

Didn't see your post. I'm disinclined to award stars or balloons simply because someone agrees with me (unless you also thereby DISagree with Banquo or CA -- I'll give you a star just for tweaking them a touch....