So, let me start with this sad story of my friend.

Basically, he was a rather good person, but with a free mind, and with free-sex attitude attached with him (contrast with the nation we lived on), and will seduce and bang almost every girls he got close with, and he was proud of that. Yep, he always boast about that, and never listen to my advice, until it was too late. Before this thing happened, he never heard my advice about the consequence that could befall on him, and what could you see, he got the fruits of his actions....

So, he got some kind of sex friend with no clear relations between them, with a girl from another faculty in our university. And after he comes back to Bandung in June, it looks like he often visit and go with her very very often... yeah, everything going fine for him, until two or three days ago...

It looks like that girl's parents caught him sleeping with her in some sort, and they demand some eplanation from that girl, and what did she said... she said that My friend was forced her to have sex with him (in other way, she said that she was raped by him), and of course, her angered parents report that to the Police (rape is crime that could lead him into 20 years custody).

Yesterday, the police pick him up and he was still in the temporary police custody now, despite he said that their sex relations was cosensual. He just called me (and some of our close friends too), and ask us to help him, but the bail for his temporary relase is too high for us, mere students. Even if we know that girl was actually some sort of bitch that will open her legs for anyone, that wasn't a valid defence for our friend that now lies in custody. First, we think to counsult some sort of private lawyers, but after the prices was too high, we're know that our poor little friend's life was doomed, he will face first trial for his "crimes" next Monday, and the lawyer police gave to him for consultation is unfortunely a woman, and she just accused him more, and actually ask him to admit his "crimes" (heck, that was cosensual, and that was not a rape, we allready tell her, but she don't listen to us and said that was every rape criminal's friends will tell).

So, in desperate atempt to save our friend, we decide we'll help with his defence (that was permitted if we act as witness), but after some discussion, our mind goes blank and can't help him in some ways. Some of my friend actually also had slept with her, but if they said that, they could be accused of rape too, while I personally never have any sexual experience (still a virgin ). And this time, I just remember that most westerners is more open minded about sex, and could help us in this case.... is there some case when cosensual sex turned to be reported as rape because parent's intervention in the past, and is there some ways that the accused turned the table? What is the defence used then?


Thank You


Sincerely
Cute Wolf

*. NOTE : DO NOT ASK ABOUT THIS IN MY FACEBOOK PAGE, you can pm me about this anyway, we're trying to cover this case from our poor friend's family, that's why I ask this international community because there is slim chance that you know about him...