The problem here is fundamental.

There is no constitution or other statement of purpose here that I know of (please point me to it if I am wrong).

How can you accomplish a goal without a common direction?

If you think that you can be everything to everybody, you will most likely end up being nothing to anybody!

The major questions are:

Why are we here to start with?

What do we hope to accomplish in the short term?

And where are we going in the long run?

Once there you have all of those things in place, you can then begin to organize and operate together towards a common objective.

Otherwise you will continue to wallow in your history, until it drowns you.