Poll: What do men notice about women?

[Beskar]

1. Are you attracted by painted fingernails? No. If anything, not having them clean or jagged would be a turn-off, but nothing in them attracts me.

2. Are you attracted by longer nails or fake nails? I don't care about them. Same answer as above.

3. Are you (if you're a man) or are men (if you're a woman) attracted by jewelry? I hate Bling. If a female wears jewelry, it is to compliment their look they are going for in that situation.

4. Are you attracted to painted toenails? I don't even look at toenails, but unless they are manky and not clean, I wouldn't care less.

5. Which do you prefer, long or short hair? (in general) I would go with Long hair, but ultimately, I don't care unless it is ugly. Women have a massive advantage in enabling to look however they want, with a large varability of styles. Short, Long or Crazy

On the otherhand, men have to pretty much have short-hair or they are considered gay or transgendered, having a large social stigma against them.

How many "Cute" males do you see with long flowing hair, perhaps in a dress, skirt, or even a blouse?

How many masculine females do you see, perhaps in a suit and tie, or similar?


If your answers are like mine, they are "Never" for the first and "Often" for the second, respectfully. Males are punished far more than females on their looks, since how many men look also identical in style, as if they are different, they receive significant discrimination and punishment. Women are far free in their choices.

For example, I could go to town with Secura, I will have cargo pants, tshirt and trainers, then Secura could turn up identical to me, basically, and could be considered "attractive".

There has never been a case where Secura has turned up, and I turn up with long flowing hair, a purse, and gothica-style dress and shoes with heels on and I doubt the females would find that attractive!

If some women choose to have horrible fake-tan, dyed pitch black mangy hair and tramp-stamps, it is their choice. But if anything, I know far more males who find this a turn-off than a turn-on.

[Husar]

On the otherhand, men have to pretty much have short-hair or they are considered gay or transgendered, having a large social stigma against them.

Do you consider Conan the Barbarian gay or transgendered when you see him?
I have relatively long hair (about from the top of my head to half my ears when cut, below my ears after I let it grow, certainly longer than most men) and I have seen manly men with even longer hair while most gays often seem to go for the same short haircuts all the other men have.
I have been mistaken for a girl now and then but that doesn't distract me a lot, I'd be mistaken for a broom if I had short hair.

[Beskar]

Do you consider Conan the Barbarian gay or transgendered when you see him?

Conan the Barbarian looks like he likes to dominate weaker males as women are too fragile for him, according to 'societies values'.

[Moros]

I've got hair to right below my shoulder blades, which is pretty long I'd say. And I'm considered to be quite manly, though I'm not the tallest or most muscular. But having a beard might be helping a lot at not looking feminine.

[Alexander the Pretty Good]

Dude here, I think I tend not to notice 1-4 unless something's wrong (too much make up or jewelry etc), however I think when a girl is rocking 1-4 correctly, she is more attractive but as a guy I don't notice those specifics. I just think she's hot.

As for long or short hair, it definitely depends on the lady in question. To make a very vague generalization I might say that long hair works better if a girl is "hot" while short is better if the girl is "cute" but there are tons of exceptions to both rules.

[KukriKhan]

1. Are you (if you're a man) or are men (if you're a woman) attracted by painted fingernails?

2. Are you (if you're a man) or are men (if you're a woman) attracted by longer nails or fake nails?

3. Are you (if you're a man) or are men (if you're a woman) attracted by jewelry?

4. Are you (if you're a man) or are men (if you're a woman) attracted to painted toenails?

5. Which do you prefer, long or short hair? (in general)

What time is it?
How drunk am I?
Am I married?
How long since... you know?

[aimlesswanderer]

1. Are you attracted by painted fingernails?

No, don't care as long as her nails aren't horrible.

2. Are you attracted by longer nails or fake nails?

No, don't care as long as her nails aren't horrible.

3. Are you attracted by jewelry?

Not really, too much and too flashy is not my style at all. Some tasteful jewellery is ok.

4. Are you attracted to painted toenails?

No, don't care as long as her nails aren't horrible.

5. Which do you prefer, long or short hair? (in general)

Generally long hair, though there are exceptions. Kinda depends on what you consider "short". I'd consider shorter than ear length as "short".


A. High heels, turn-on or don't care
B. Color of hair
C. Processed hair (bleached, colored...)
D. Where is the line between sexy and trashy cloths...
E. Height and body weight

A. I think that women who do themselves long term harm by regularly wearing high heels are kinda dumb and lacking common sense, both very bad signs.

B. Much prefer darker.

C. Generally not.

D. Kinda depends on the lady and the situation, but not a fan of trashy.

E. Similar or shorter I guess. Healthy weight.

[Rhyfelwyr]

A. High heels, turn-on or don't care
Don't care.

B. Color of hair
I would have used to say blonde, but now I don't mind, dark black hair can still look very good.

C. Processed hair (bleached, colored...)
Don't mind it.

D. Where is the line between sexy and trashy cloths...
Trashy is when they always wear ridiculously short skirts and such clothes.

E. Height and body weight
Slightly skinny - average is best. I really don't like any fat beginning to stick out at all. For height, anything from 5'0 to 5'7 maybe is best, since I'm pretty much on the average at 5'11.

[ELITEofWARMANGINGERYBREADMEN88]

Simple. I look at her hair length, hair color, her chest (her "puppies" ), her butt (my favorite part) and her legs.

[Moros]

Simple. I look at her hair length, hair color, her chest (her "puppies" ), her butt (my favorite part) and her legs.

So as long as she has a hot body and good hair it's good? The face is not important?

[ELITEofWARMANGINGERYBREADMEN88]

Face is really important, forgot to add it in my post.

[Prussian to the Iron]

Male (as I'm sure everyone knows by now...)

1. Are you (if you're a man) or are men (if you're a woman) attracted by painted fingernails? Nope. Usually don't notice unless told about it, or they're black. and don't like black fingernails...

2. Are you (if you're a man) or are men (if you're a woman) attracted by longer nails or fake nails? Nope. don't care either way. In fact, I dislike long nails if anything, they scratch too much :P

3. Are you (if you're a man) or are men (if you're a woman) attracted by jewelry? ....Sometimes. Necklaces and Earrings usually look good, though they aren't a huge bonus.

4. Are you (if you're a man) or are men (if you're a woman) attracted to painted toenails? ??? Not really. I guess I could be though.

5. Which do you prefer, long or short hair? (in general) Long. At least to shoulder, preferably to shoulder-blades/lower.



Mostly about the face though. and body. I like petite girls usually, and pretty face is a must.

[Diana Abnoba]

Thanks to all for their honest answers, very informative.

[Megas Methuselah]

So are ya plannin' on changin yo style? Tryna get yoself a man, maybe? Tell us about it.

[Askthepizzaguy]

So are ya plannin' on changin yo style? Tryna get yoself a man, maybe? Tell us about it.

She's spoken for.

[naut]

Do you consider Conan the Barbarian gay or transgendered when you see him?