You are talking to the wrong person, it's not my point I am merely defending iit as it IS a valid point. If you check all boxes on how we should respectfully get along, than how could you even begin to defend such a mockery of what people truly care about. If you change it's meaning that also means your parents and their parents, and in the end it doesn't mean anything anymore, it's theatre. As society has changed so should we, but it shouldn't be a mandatory celebration..