Girl I'm somewhat fond of.

**ELITEofWARMANGINGERYBREADMEN88** · 08-20-2010, 16:06

There is this girl I like I used to go to school with. After 6th grade we lost contact, she stayed in public school, I went to private (Catholic school) school then off to Cyber school for High school. I recently reestbalish contact with her last summer (2009) where shes works at a local drug store me and my mother go to often.

We both are out of high school and sadly,she has a boyfriend (some native radical Serbian guy) . Fine, I can live with that. But I still... don't know, been somewhat fond of her lately, and I was thinking about taking her out to eat one day, or um, at least asking, but don't know if that would look like I'm a loony stalker or something, which is not my intention.

Advice?

**A Nerd** · 08-20-2010, 16:21

I doesn't hurt to try, but the boyfriend aspect is alittle hard to overlook. You can at least pacify your yearning by getting a 'no'. You won't have to dream about a 'what if' anymore, you will know it is not meant to be. Sometimes the' wanting to be with' is worse than the 'knowing of being without'. You are still young, you can still have your memories of her, just with a different woman in the present! Make then anew, start over from scratch. Fond memories can be pleasant, but if you long for the flesh, especially with the unavailable, you will forever be in a state of dissapointment.

edit:

boyfriend (some native radical Serbian guy)

If the guy is agressive or the like, I wouldn't move in on his girlfriend either.

**Fragony** · 08-20-2010, 16:55

edit, bad taste from my part. I have it.

**Ronin** · 08-20-2010, 17:25

as with every other major decision that you have to make regarding a girl, rule nº 1 applies.

Rule Number 1 - Jerk off first, then think about it again.

you'll be surprised how clearer your head is after you take the edge off.

**Rhyfelwyr** · 08-20-2010, 17:40

Woo her with cashews and milk?

**ELITEofWARMANGINGERYBREADMEN88** · 08-20-2010, 18:13

Originally Posted by Rhyfelwyr

Woo her with cashews and milk?

It will take a lot of it!

**Fragony** · 08-20-2010, 18:59

Originally Posted by Ronin

as with every other major decision that you have to make regarding a girl, rule nº 1 applies.

Rule Number 1 - Jerk off first, then think about it again.

you'll be surprised how clearer your head is after you take the edge off.

Good advice, take matters into your own hands