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    Stranger in a strange land Moderator Hooahguy's Avatar
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    Default Re: Girl I'm somewhat fond of.

    Maybe get into the friend zone first? If you become close friends with her than maybe she will come to you about gripes about her current BF, then you can use that to slowly pry her away from him.
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    Default Re: Girl I'm somewhat fond of.

    Gah! Do not try to be a 'nice guy' and become friends with them, or they will never respect you. Do not try to be sensitive, or caring, or a good listener or whatever girls say they like, just man up and you will get attention. And let this attitude show as well... just be confident in your body language, don't fuss around with your clothing and hairstyle like you're a 12 year old girl, and for sake, do not wear skinny jeans.

    I used to be very unconfident and probably had social anxiety, but I've went through an early mid-life crisis and have become paranoid and bitter with the world (especially over why I can't get a job ). But at least this has made me more confident and assertive.

    And just from this, I have been approached by girls several times recently. I'm not a 'macho guy', I'm just saying do not be a 'nice guy' like hooah is saying. Also, do not be like me, I am like 'aspergers guy' lol. I ruined every chance with my lack of social skills and (probably even moresoe)my crappy manners, they really are attrocious.

    If you want to approach her warman, just be direct, and offer to take her out for cashews and milk.
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    Approach depends on the woman. One must know alitte about her before he can plan a strategy. Too agressive when unnecessary or too meek when more aggression is needed will spell failure. A relationship depends on ones true character being shown and shared. If you act like you are not, then it will only cause problems in the future. For instance, if you pick up the girl acting all aggressive then later you let your true meeker self show thru, then she might become dissillusioned and dump you. Harmful to ones ego when you have developed sincere feelings for her. True that the woman might come to love you and accept you as you are, but such things take time, it won't happen on the first date. I like a nice honest approach such that failure is immediate and doesn't happen later when I have grown attached to her. This is my opinion, my track record isn't great, but I haven't been hurt when what I like about myself isn't appreciated or accepted by another. There will always be another. There is someone out there for everybody.
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