Decisions, decisions....

**Togakure** · 09-15-2010, 16:00

I've always favored a picnic which I put together, carefully and with taste (having gathered a little intel on what she likes ahead of time), red and white checkered throw, basket, and all. Take her to a nice place on a nice day with a nice view. Make sure the weather is good, and there's room for a nice picturesque walk. This scenario allows for the enjoyment of food and drink, and lots of conversation, without a lot of distractions if you go to the right place at the right time.

If conversation, personality, and sincere eye-to-eye expression are strengths, it's hard to go wrong with this. I don't like to waste time (I don't mean getting to sex; I mean getting to know each other well). You can cover much more ground on a date like this than on ten dates to the movies doing things where conversation and one-on-one, face-to-face interaction is inhibited.

But that's just me, and times and people have changed. Maybe this kind of thing doesn't fly with most anymore.

As to laser tag etc., once some time ago when I did a picnic as described, I took my date to a park alongside a local river where there was an archery range, and after lunch on the spur, we rented bows and did some shooting. It was spontaneous and she loved it. She out-shot me too, lol (and I wasn't letting her--I'm a former summer camp instructor for pete's sake--she was just a damn good shot!).

**Prussian to the Iron** · 10-24-2010, 04:02

Might be a bit of a turn around, but now...I'm back at square one and I've taken a step forward surprisingly.

after a really great night (won't go over details, but essentially I spent 99.99% with the hot sister and her best friend), her best friend asked if i liked the sister, which sparked a whole conversation and she says that she likes me back too. so now I just have to deal with.....the original.....(evil overshadowing music)

**Megas Methuselah** · 10-24-2010, 05:15

So which one are you gonna do first then?

**pevergreen** · 10-24-2010, 15:24

Originally Posted by Prussian Iron

Might be a bit of a turn around, but now...I'm back at square one and I've taken a step forward surprisingly.

after a really great night (won't go over details, but essentially I spent 99.99% with the hot sister and her best friend), her best friend asked if i liked the sister, which sparked a whole conversation and she says that she likes me back too. so now I just have to deal with.....the original.....(evil overshadowing music)

So wait, the sister likes you?

Or the best friend?

**Prussian to the Iron** · 10-24-2010, 15:55

both. but the friend is too young so in that i was talking about the sister. I see how that would be confusing though.

BTW: both sister and her friend know that the other likes me. just so nobody asks about that.