Do it.
I think adding her to facebook would be the best way, you will also see if she is single or not.
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Facebook, it comes in handy
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I'm going to go against the grain here, and say forget about her. I mean, what exactly are you going to accomplish by sending her an email? It's a bit hard to build a relationship when you two aren't geographically close, and there had been no real special bond from the past. I know this sucks and isn't what you wanted to hear, but I've had experience with a very closely related situation. It sucked. A LOT. Don't let it drive you insane. Go chase. That's the single greatest piece of advice I can offer.
By the way, I think I've been using Excel too much. The title reminded me of =sum(x,x) :P.
Yes, there was. Something real special. Further, it's a bit strange, I think, to continue feeling something for her (and abosolutely nothing towards any other girls) after a few years had passed.
But the rest of your post rings true to reality, and is exactly what is scaring me from doing it. From a realistic perspective, perhaps the most likely possibility would be having a long talk about the past and the present, and perhaps agreeing to going out for coffee or something when we're nearby. But I don't know. I just don't know. I mean, wtf, I'm freakin scared, man...
Sounds like you're basically in the same situation I am, except its not bad.
As the others have said, theres really two options, go, or forget.
Do you think you can forget? If so, that is in reality, the better option. If you don't: try. Otherwise you will regret not trying.
It sucks, but eventually you'll move on, or you won't.
Yeah, just be thankful its not bad. I'd much rather be you.![]()
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The poorest man may in his cottage bid defiance to all the forces of the Crown. It may be frail; its roof may shake; the wind may blow through it; the storm may enter; the rain may enter; but the King of England cannot enter – all his force dares not cross the threshold of the ruined tenement! - William Pitt the Elder
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