my daughters become priestessses of some cult where they can´t get marry and man of the hour and adoptions are a no chance 1st houserulle

2nd destroy a faction only if they refuse to become a protectorate once i´ve been betrayed by them if not i play my game and develop my economy as much as i possibly can until i can net profit enough to pay for all my setlement buildings every turn and everytime i pass that limit (depends alot on wich faction i´m playing with) i build a new army

if playing as koinon hellenon epirus or makedonia all my youngesters go into the agoge independently of their traits and origin´s and all must be at least 4 turns in athens for the secrets before they become part of what i call "the council" that runs the empire if not none of them can lead and army or govern a city (except for athens ofc)