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    Question Comforting

    If someone of the opposite gender in your class is going to suffer a personal loss and you find them crying in the classroom before class, would it be creepy to go over there and comfort them or no?

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    laugh at them
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    Quote Originally Posted by Strike For The South View Post
    laugh at them
    This, and tell everyone.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Strike For The South View Post
    laugh at them
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    Anyways I would leave her be, you have no idea what she's going trough even when you do.

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    wrap your arm on her shouldrer, pat her head slowly, and said "don't cry, what's wrong" along with emphatic face...

    That always working...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cute Wolf View Post
    wrap your arm on her shouldrer, pat her head slowly, and said "don't cry, what's wrong" along with emphatic face...

    That always working...

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    especially well if you are very friendly with most of the girls... well "very friendly" because you have a face and voice that very much like them...
    Don't listen to him, he tries to get you slapped.
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    First of all: be honest with yourself.

    If getting into her pants is what you're really after, then leave her alone. Once it becomes obvious to her that you don't give a about her situation but are only there to try to seduce her, things will probably get far worse, for both of you.

    If you truly feel sorry for her, then comfort her, but with no other intentions than that: helping her to get through a difficult emotional time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Andres View Post
    First of all: be honest with yourself.

    If getting into her pants is what you're really after, then leave her alone. Once it becomes obvious to her that you don't give a about her situation but are only there to try to seduce her, things will probably get far worse, for both of you.

    If you truly feel sorry for her, then comfort her, but with no other intentions than that: helping her to get through a difficult emotional time.
    Ya. Best is to politely pretend you didn't notice her crying if you don't really care. If you do care keep it to a squeeze in the shoulder small gestures say the most.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fragony View Post
    Ya. Best is to politely pretend you didn't notice her crying if you don't really care. If you do care keep it to a squeeze in the shoulder small gestures say the most.
    and said if she was uncomfortable, you will comfort her at your home
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    Quote Originally Posted by AntiKingWarmanCake88 View Post
    If someone of the opposite gender in your class is going to suffer a personal loss and you find them crying in the classroom before class, would it be creepy to go over there and comfort them or no?
    Wait.... Is going to suffer a personal loss? DUDE WHAT EVER YOU DO, KILLING SOMEONE TO GET IN A GIRLS PANTS IS NOT THE RIGHT WAY TO GO ABOUT IT. With that said, I'd go for a pistol, nice and quick.
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    AKWC, depends on your relationship to that person and your intent. If you have some sort of acquaintance and she has never caught you trying to get a sniff of her sports bra, then you should be fine. It's perfectly natural to want to comfort someone in distress. Especially if she's a hottie.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Strike For The South View Post
    laugh at them

    lulz, you a meanie!

    Quote Originally Posted by Lemur View Post
    AKWC, depends on your relationship to that person and your intent. If you have some sort of acquaintance and she has never caught you trying to get a sniff of her sports bra, then you should be fine. It's perfectly natural to want to comfort someone in distress. Especially if she's a hottie.
    I don't really know her well Lemur, but she is a hottie brunette.

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    Comfort her only with no other intentions than to console. Take it from there. Hitting on her while she is upset would seem somewhat insensitive.
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    Quote Originally Posted by A Nerd View Post
    Comfort her only with no other intentions than to console. Take it from there. Hitting on her while she is upset would seem somewhat insensitive.
    Extacly what I am trying to do. Don't get me wrong, I would be legitmatelly sorry if her father dies, I would, but I'm trying to kill 2 birds with one stone here. Show my respect + score points. Proably only time I'll get to do it sadly.

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    Extacly what I am trying to do. Don't get me wrong, I would be legitmatelly sorry if her father dies, I would, but I'm trying to kill 2 birds with one stone here. Show my respect + score points. Proably only time I'll get to do it sadly.
    Very good. Points you score after your encounter, in my opinion, would be acquired as you leave her alone to mourn in peace.
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