Is it me or are women the most egocentric beings in this world?

[Moros]

I've really got the feeling that women are so overly egoistic in nature. They plan their lives and have their expectations of live and their partner. The latter should be lucky to be part of it and nothing more. He can have his hobby, but the rest has to be done the way the woman wants it. Every sacrifice a man makes get by unnoticed, while every time a man want to do something outside of the woman's plan, arguments and all kinds of go their way.

Well except for those women who fall in love and keep loving to this violent alcoholic.

Am I the only one, with (some of) these ideas?

[Andres]

Wait until you're married...

[Sasaki Kojiro]

What percent of women do you think are like that and what percent of men?

[Fragony]

Look at the bright side they have boobs

[Rhyfelwyr]

Some are like that. Stay away from them!

[Tellos Athenaios]

Might be your bad luck, or might be that if you tell her in advance what your plans for the day/month/week are she'll take notice more?

[Prince Cobra]

Just hope your (future or present) girlfriend will never get access to the Backroom and your account here...

[Hosakawa Tito]

[Vuk]

lol, that describes most women of my generationg unfortunately.

[Husar]

No wonder society used to keep them in the kitchen but at some point we softened those security measures up and under the percveived improvement of emancipation and equalization, women became the masters.

[HoreTore]

There are three main categories of women:

The bitch

The bitch is the kind of woman you described in your first post. They are put on this earth to make your existence as miserable as possible. They are the ultimate egocentrics, their partners exist only to please them. They have no need for sex, as making your life hell gets them off.

The whore

Not to be confused with the sub-category "prostitute", the whore is after your money too, but in a slightly different way. Unlike the bitch, the whore will give you lots of sex, if you take care of her material needs. Sex is a commodity to these women, they view it as a mean towards an end. Therefore, most whores are found where the men with money hang out, such as classy bars and parties. A trademark of the whore is that they have a low-income job at k-mart, for example, but still walks around in very expensive clothes and jewelry.

The normal women

Believe it or not, they do exist. The normal women are the ones who will give and take in a relationship. They are the ones who will care for you when you're dying of a fever of 37,5 degrees.


Not all women fit within one of these categories of course, and there are plenty of sub-categories, like "the feminist"or "the prostitute". A woman can also swap category. They can for example be a normal woman or whore in their 20's, and turn into a proper bitch in their 30's. When that happens, the proper response is "get to tha choppar!!".

[naut]

And men aren't egotistic? Give me a break buddy.

There are 3 Billion women in the world. Sure some are too young and some too old, but still there's a HUGE number of healthy, hot, legit women out there. Find one you don't like, dump her and move on. The same goes for women regarding men, don't like your man, dump him, move on.

[Beskar]

And men aren't egotistic? Give me a break buddy.

There are 3 Billion women in the world. Sure some are too young and some too old, but still there's a HUGE number of healthy, hot, legit women out there. Find one you don't like, dump her and move on. The same goes for women regarding men, don't like your man, dump him, move on.

You haven't been to Britain then, the average female is ugly.

Though strangely, the average female in Israel is rated 'hot'.

I might have to some how become Jewish, learn Hebrew and move to Israel......

[naut]

You haven't been to Britain then, the average female is ugly.

Lol. I'm British. I'm an expat. And, you have Europe on your doorstep, go use the EU travel privileges to find a Mediterranean/Eastern European lass if you don't like the local pickings.

Edit: Most British men aren't much to look at either. Genetics works both ways and all that.

[jabarto]

It's not you. Women will cheerfully lie to your face whenever they can, even if nothing is at stake. They see you only as a useful tool to be used and tossed aside when convenient.

At least, that's what they do if you're ugly. If you're hot they'll fawn all over you no matter how poorly you treat them, and why not? They're as deep as sheets of pond scum, why should their objects of affection be any different?

ps i'm bitter

[Fragony]

French women are the hottest period. The avarage Dutch girl is prettier, most pretty in the world probably, but I like classy women not pretty girls. French chicks become women when they are 18, Dutch chicks remain cute until they are 30. Kinda lol@title; is it just me & egocentric

[naut]

It's not you. Women will cheerfully lie to your face whenever they can, even if nothing is at stake. They see you only as a useful tool to be used and tossed aside when convenient.

At least, that's what they do if you're ugly. If you're hot they'll fawn all over you no matter how poorly you treat them, and why not? They're as deep as sheets of pond scum, why should their objects of affection be any different?

Lol. People will lie in your face, regardless of gender. Women see men as tools? Heh. Men see women as objects to be possessed.

If you're ugly, I'm deeply sorry, but that is human nature, both biologically and psychologically. A woman is not going to go after an unattractive mate, and a man will do just the same. Seriously. If you aren't the best looking you aren't going to get models, (boatloads of money and being the funniest guy ever aside) DEAL WITH IT. The same is true of less than standard lasses, they aren't going to end up with muscle bound Adonises.

It's like listening to a bunch of violins playing at a mass suicide. Cheer up. Generalisation central in here.

[Fragony]

Lol. People will lie in your face, regardless of gender. Women see men as tools? Heh. Men see women as objects to be possessed.

If you're ugly, I'm deeply sorry, but that is human nature, both biologically and psychologically. A woman is not going to go after an unattractive mate, and a man will do just the same. Seriously. If you aren't the best looking you aren't going to get models, (boatloads of money and being the funniest guy ever aside) DEAL WITH IT. The same is true of less than standard lasses, they aren't going to end up with muscle bound Adonises.

It's like listening to a bunch of violins playing at a mass suicide. Cheer up. Generalisation central in here.

That's bull it's all about attitude. Friend of me is one ugly and he scores one hottie after another.

[jabarto]

Lol. People will lie in your face, regardless of gender. Women see men as tools? Heh. Men see women as objects to be possessed.

If you're ugly, I'm deeply sorry, but that is human nature, both biologically and psychologically. A woman is not going to go after an unattractive mate, and a man will do just the same. Seriously. If you aren't the best looking you aren't going to get models, (boatloads of money and being the funniest guy ever aside) DEAL WITH IT. The same is true of less than standard lasses, they aren't going to end up with muscle bound Adonises.

It's like listening to a bunch of violins playing at a mass suicide. Cheer up. Generalisation central in here.

I was just messing, really. I'm actually quite egalitarian in my disdain for humanity, irrespective of gender.

[naut]

That's bull it's all about attitude. Friend of me is one ugly and he scores one hottie after another.

Attitude is important yes, I know both ends of the spectrum, decent looking guys with prospects etc who couldn't score in a whore-house because their attitudes are all wrong and at least one ugly guy who always takes home a decent or better lass just because his personality and attitude is right. So yes, you're right that an attitude/personality can overcome a lack of looks, but I'd say that is the exception not the rule.

[Fragony]

Attitude is important yes, I know both ends of the spectrum, decent looking guys with prospects etc who couldn't score in a whore-house because their attitudes are all wrong and at least one ugly guy who always takes home a decent or better lass just because his personality and attitude is right. So yes, you're right that an attitude/personality can overcome a lack of looks, but I'd say that is the exception not the rule.

Nah it's everything, if you feel good about yourself good looks hardly matter. Scoring women in a bar is pathetic anyway we aren't bonobo's, people acting like that really annoy me.

[Moros]

Lol. People will lie in your face, regardless of gender. Women see men as tools? Heh. Men see women as objects to be possessed.

She's gotten to you! Look women corrupted this poor soul. Don't worry though, I'll avenge you! Pour soul.

Actually I posted this not because of my own gf, who is kind of okayish with this. Though she already has some plans to on how our life should be, she even has a set age on when she wants to get married, gets a first born. While I'm more like, hmm what bar should I go to today...? But it's actually because of how I noticed a friend of mine having arguments on how he wasn't comming home with her, even though she was already told long before (and agreed) that he wasn't going home when she got tired. And I started thinking. It's actually everywhere in couples that the woman has these plans and ideas and a man needs to smile and say yes. Just look at their houses. Who decorated everything, decided what should be where,...? The lucky guys have their own study/garage or something but that's it. And of course they sometimes ask your opinion, but only to give a false sense of democracy.


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[Seamus Fermanagh]

And men aren't egotistic? Give me a break buddy....

That about sums it up. The mysogyny thing is good for a few quick yuks, but really can't be taken seriously.

[Husar]

Just look at their houses. Who decorated everything, decided what should be where,...? The lucky guys have their own study/garage or something but that's it. And of course they sometimes ask your opinion, but only to give a false sense of democracy.

Well, yes, that's why I'm happy that I hardly care, as long as she wouldn't turn it into some pink lady hole of doom. Fortunately though, I never had to bother with such things because I kinda fit this: "decent looking guys with prospects etc who couldn't score in a whore-house because their attitudes are all wrong".

[Fragony]

Well, yes, that's why I'm happy that I hardly care, as long as she wouldn't turn it into some pink lady hole of doom. Fortunately though, I never had to bother with such things because I kinda fit this: "decent looking guys with prospects etc who couldn't score in a whore-house because their attitudes are all wrong".

Geez Hussy just think of yourself as a predator stalking it's prey, proper look on face comes naturally. I'm no bar guy that's vulgar and cheap, I Iike candlelights, wine and loads of innuendo it becomes a battle, when they start feeling their wineglass victory is yours, they don't notice they do that. I think. Bars are too loud for such a dual.

[The Stranger]

You haven't been to Britain then, the average female is ugly.

Though strangely, the average female in Israel is rated 'hot'.

I might have to some how become Jewish, learn Hebrew and move to Israel......

oh yea... brits just an ugly people but israely... omy!!

[The Stranger]

Lol. I'm British. I'm an expat. And, you have Europe on your doorstep, go use the EU travel privileges to find a Mediterranean/Eastern European lass if you don't like the local pickings.

Edit: Most British men aren't much to look at either. Genetics works both ways and all that.

go to eastern europe!!! too few men too many hot women!

[Strike For The South]

Meh I'm pretty egotistical

[Crazed Rabbit]

In response to the OP: Yes, it is just you.

CR

[HoreTore]

go to eastern europe!!! too few men too many hot women!

All the hot women in eastern europe are in the strip joints, and they cost you money.