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Women? How much suceuss do you have with the ladies? I myself actually have small sucess, but nothing to eat Cashews and Milk over though sadly.
Not really tried for over 3 years.
Not ready.
Not ready.
Give everyone alcohol.
Many a lady have lowered there standards when the coco rum comes to the party
Does this make me a bad person?
Yes
Do I care?
No
Many a lady have lowered there standards when the coco rum comes to the party
Does this make me a bad person?
Yes
Do I care?
No
Originally Posted by Strike For The South:
Give everyone alcohol.
Many a lady have lowered there standards when the coco rum comes to the party
Does this make me a bad person?
Yes
Do I care?
No
Give everyone alcohol.
Many a lady have lowered there standards when the coco rum comes to the party
Does this make me a bad person?
Yes
Do I care?
No
Remind me to give you a million dollars if I hit the lottery.
If by success you mean getting zoned, then yes. More often than not. Its lame.
Originally Posted by Veho Nex:
If by success you mean getting zoned, then yes. More often than not. Its lame.
Sluts.If by success you mean getting zoned, then yes. More often than not. Its lame.
Originally Posted by Strike For The South:
Sluts.
Sluts.
Are you saying I pursue them?
Originally Posted by Strike For The South:
Sluts.
Sluts.
Dirty women.
I fail at this. Despite having no life, numerous opportunities have still presented themselves to me without any effort of my own, and I still can't do it.
Same here Rhy. Half the time I chicken out, and the times I do man up (more then you think), they not interested. So it's like, whatever.
Move with grace! Move with confidence! Move with...
yeah, you probably should not listen to me...
yeah, you probably should not listen to me...
Originally Posted by Strike For The South:
Sluts.
Yeah.Sluts.
Hey. Are we man-whores?
I am a bit of a chick-magnet I'm the one that gets aproached, only flirt back and it usually stays at that unless I actually like them, never go for them myself it's not in my nature to do so. If I would see the love of my life I would be clueless on how to aproach her.
Originally Posted by Fragony:
I am a bit of a chick-magnet I'm the one that gets aproached, only flirt back and it usually stays at that unless I actually like them, never go for them myself it's not in my nature to do so. If I would see the love of my life I would be clueless on how to aproach her.
I'm sort of the same way. I once said, "hey, how's it going?" to a girl in my class, and apparently that was enough. But as for hitting on a girl, that's about all that I know.I am a bit of a chick-magnet I'm the one that gets aproached, only flirt back and it usually stays at that unless I actually like them, never go for them myself it's not in my nature to do so. If I would see the love of my life I would be clueless on how to aproach her.
Depends what role you need to play within the cultural norm. I find myself most successful if I play the short, hairy, funny guy. Whereas I couldn't play the large, muscular, surfer guy which my friend plays very (frustratingly) well. At the same time I couldn't play the intellectual or the sensitive guy.
Also
Also
Originally Posted by Strike For The South:
Many a lady have lowered there standards when the coco rum comes to the party
Does this make me a bad person?
Yes
Do I care?
No
LOLMany a lady have lowered there standards when the coco rum comes to the party
Does this make me a bad person?
Yes
Do I care?
No
well, still running arround chasing girls? I bet you are frustated, actually, here is some alternatives
1) if you have a girl that was your best friend... try to spend more time with her. Love grows from closeness.... if you don't have any, try to become friends with them, and love will comes naturally
2) do heavy bodybuilding until you got body like greek gods, chicks will come afterwards
3) go to church, and pray endlessly in two or three days, attend every worship and prayer events, and become a very pious and religious man, I can bet some girls will start to see something in you. (if you don't get some sucess, maybe your life had another purpose than chasing girls arround... )
4) directly speak to your parents and ask to get a marriage arrangements (if you are soo frustated by the prospect of not having any girl). But necer complain if they gave you the fat chubby one...
5) ask for a mail order bride from *****
actually, a girl is reading all of this, and she said "pity for warman"
1) if you have a girl that was your best friend... try to spend more time with her. Love grows from closeness.... if you don't have any, try to become friends with them, and love will comes naturally
2) do heavy bodybuilding until you got body like greek gods, chicks will come afterwards
3) go to church, and pray endlessly in two or three days, attend every worship and prayer events, and become a very pious and religious man, I can bet some girls will start to see something in you. (if you don't get some sucess, maybe your life had another purpose than chasing girls arround... )
4) directly speak to your parents and ask to get a marriage arrangements (if you are soo frustated by the prospect of not having any girl). But necer complain if they gave you the fat chubby one...
5) ask for a mail order bride from *****
actually, a girl is reading all of this, and she said "pity for warman"
I don't really have any success, but I think that's mostly cause I don't really try. Hitting on girls I barely know isn't really my style anyway.
Originally Posted by Cute Wolf:
well, still running arround chasing girls? I bet you are frustated, actually, here is some alternatives
1) if you have a girl that was your best friend... try to spend more time with her. Love grows from closeness.... if you don't have any, try to become friends with them, and love will comes naturally
This has been my approach with this one girl for a while. I think after two years, I might be getting close, but I don't know for sure.well, still running arround chasing girls? I bet you are frustated, actually, here is some alternatives
1) if you have a girl that was your best friend... try to spend more time with her. Love grows from closeness.... if you don't have any, try to become friends with them, and love will comes naturally
Originally Posted by Chuchip:
This has been my approach with this one girl for a while. I think after two years, I might be getting close, but I don't know for sure.
Welcome to: This has been my approach with this one girl for a while. I think after two years, I might be getting close, but I don't know for sure.
The Friend Zone.
Originally Posted by Megas Methuselah:
I'm sort of the same way. I once said, "hey, how's it going?" to a girl in my class, and apparently that was enough. But as for hitting on a girl, that's about all that I know.
We are still menI'm sort of the same way. I once said, "hey, how's it going?" to a girl in my class, and apparently that was enough. But as for hitting on a girl, that's about all that I know.
It's a bit of a curse to be atractive to the other gender
Originally Posted by Strike For The South:
Sluts.
This.Sluts.
Originally Posted by Cute Wolf:
1) if you have a girl that was your best friend... try to spend more time with her. Love grows from closeness.... if you don't have any, try to become friends with them, and love will comes naturally
No. No. NO! NO! NO! NO! NO!1) if you have a girl that was your best friend... try to spend more time with her. Love grows from closeness.... if you don't have any, try to become friends with them, and love will comes naturally
Originally Posted by Cute Wolf:
2) do heavy bodybuilding until you got body like greek gods, chicks will come afterwards
Don't change yourself for anyone other than yourself. Otherwise your priorities will be all wrong.2) do heavy bodybuilding until you got body like greek gods, chicks will come afterwards
Originally Posted by Psychonaut:
No. No. NO! NO! NO! NO! NO!
No. No. NO! NO! NO! NO! NO!
I would listen to him. Friendships are nice and all, but once she sees you as a friend it will almsot never work out to be anything more that that. And, seeing as how love through closeness is more true for males than females, you will only depress yourself.
Originally Posted by Motep:
I would listen to him. Friendships are nice and all, but once she sees you as a friend it will almsot never work out to be anything more that that. And, seeing as how love through closeness is more true for males than females, you will only depress yourself.
It's not that she see's you as a "friend", it's that she sees this: a guy with low self-esteem and no confidence who doesn't back himself enough to take a chance and isn't man enough to go out and "take what he wants". Guys who take that approach are desperate, and to quote a good friend of mine: "Desperation is the least attractive quality a man can have".I would listen to him. Friendships are nice and all, but once she sees you as a friend it will almsot never work out to be anything more that that. And, seeing as how love through closeness is more true for males than females, you will only depress yourself.
Confidence and backing yourself is what works. That and having realistic expectations, relationships are transactive. Don't expect to get a premium product if your offering is substandard.
Originally Posted by Psychonaut:
It's not that she see's you as a "friend", it's that she sees this: a guy with low self-esteem and no confidence who doesn't back himself enough to take a chance and isn't man enough to go out and "take what he wants". Guys who take that approach are desperate, and to quote a good friend of mine: "Desperation is the least attractive quality a man can have".
Confidence and backing yourself is what works. That and having realistic expectations, relationships are transactive. Don't expect to get a premium product if your offering is substandard.
For the second time, do not listen to me. Listen to this guyIt's not that she see's you as a "friend", it's that she sees this: a guy with low self-esteem and no confidence who doesn't back himself enough to take a chance and isn't man enough to go out and "take what he wants". Guys who take that approach are desperate, and to quote a good friend of mine: "Desperation is the least attractive quality a man can have".
Confidence and backing yourself is what works. That and having realistic expectations, relationships are transactive. Don't expect to get a premium product if your offering is substandard.
Originally Posted by Motep:
Move with grace! Move with confidence! Move with...
yeah, you probably should not listen to me...
Strike hard, Strike fast, be boldMove with grace! Move with confidence! Move with...
yeah, you probably should not listen to me...
is my motto. I'm trying to figure out if it works to much for me that it causes me to fail or what.
Originally Posted by Megas Methuselah:
Yeah.
Hey. Are we man-whores?
Ummm..... You tell me. Yeah.
Hey. Are we man-whores?
Originally Posted by Fragony:
I am a bit of a chick-magnet I'm the one that gets aproached, only flirt back and it usually stays at that unless I actually like them, never go for them myself it's not in my nature to do so. If I would see the love of my life I would be clueless on how to aproach her.
Your advice Mr.Chick man?I am a bit of a chick-magnet I'm the one that gets aproached, only flirt back and it usually stays at that unless I actually like them, never go for them myself it's not in my nature to do so. If I would see the love of my life I would be clueless on how to aproach her.
Originally Posted by Cute Wolf:
well, still running arround chasing girls? I bet you are frustated, actually, here is some alternatives
1) if you have a girl that was your best friend... try to spend more time with her. Love grows from closeness.... if you don't have any, try to become friends with them, and love will comes naturally
2) do heavy bodybuilding until you got body like greek gods, chicks will come afterwards
3) go to church, and pray endlessly in two or three days, attend every worship and prayer events, and become a very pious and religious man, I can bet some girls will start to see something in you. (if you don't get some sucess, maybe your life had another purpose than chasing girls arround... )
4) directly speak to your parents and ask to get a marriage arrangements (if you are soo frustated by the prospect of not having any girl). But necer complain if they gave you the fat chubby one...
5) ask for a mail order bride from *****
actually, a girl is reading all of this, and she said "pity for warman"
well, still running arround chasing girls? I bet you are frustated, actually, here is some alternatives
1) if you have a girl that was your best friend... try to spend more time with her. Love grows from closeness.... if you don't have any, try to become friends with them, and love will comes naturally
2) do heavy bodybuilding until you got body like greek gods, chicks will come afterwards
3) go to church, and pray endlessly in two or three days, attend every worship and prayer events, and become a very pious and religious man, I can bet some girls will start to see something in you. (if you don't get some sucess, maybe your life had another purpose than chasing girls arround... )
4) directly speak to your parents and ask to get a marriage arrangements (if you are soo frustated by the prospect of not having any girl). But necer complain if they gave you the fat chubby one...
5) ask for a mail order bride from *****
actually, a girl is reading all of this, and she said "pity for warman"
No, they would just slap me with a restraining order.
In my absence Psychonaut is your king.
Originally Posted by :
It's not that she see's you as a "friend", it's that she sees this: a guy with low self-esteem and no confidence who doesn't back himself enough to take a chance and isn't man enough to go out and "take what he wants". Guys who take that approach are desperate, and to quote a good friend of mine: "Desperation is the least attractive quality a man can have".
Agreed, Girls go for the ass and screw over the nice guy is a misnomer. Girls go for the guy who knows what he wants and doesn't give a damn what anyone else thinks, esp. when it comes to her. It's not that she see's you as a "friend", it's that she sees this: a guy with low self-esteem and no confidence who doesn't back himself enough to take a chance and isn't man enough to go out and "take what he wants". Guys who take that approach are desperate, and to quote a good friend of mine: "Desperation is the least attractive quality a man can have".
Originally Posted by :
Confidence and backing yourself is what works. That and having realistic expectations, relationships are transactive. Don't expect to get a premium product if your offering is substandard.
are you talking only looks? b/c I would have to disagree. Now a good body goes a long way but a man can eaisly overcome being uglyConfidence and backing yourself is what works. That and having realistic expectations, relationships are transactive. Don't expect to get a premium product if your offering is substandard.
Originally Posted by Strike For The South:
are you talking only looks? b/c I would have to disagree. Now a good body goes a long way but a man can eaisly overcome being ugly
I'm talking about everything combined, looks+attitude+personality+etc. A product is more than its packaging, etc.are you talking only looks? b/c I would have to disagree. Now a good body goes a long way but a man can eaisly overcome being ugly
Originally Posted by Psychonaut:
I'm talking about everything combined, looks+attitude+personality+etc. A product is more than its packaging, etc.
true, but a man can be defficent in any one of those things save confiedence, if you walk around like you have no balls, ladies will treat you as suchI'm talking about everything combined, looks+attitude+personality+etc. A product is more than its packaging, etc.
Originally Posted by Strike For The South:
true, but a man can be defficent in any one of those things save confiedence, if you walk around like you have no balls, ladies will treat you as such
Or they'll cross the street.true, but a man can be defficent in any one of those things save confiedence, if you walk around like you have no balls, ladies will treat you as such
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