Is Marriage an Outdated concept?

[Beskar]

but I don't agree with you.

I'm not a fan of universal bastardry, among other things it is legally untidy.

Weird, since according to my suggestion, you can have marriage exactly as you (your church) want it without anyone telling you anything differently.

That homosexual couple said they had a 'marriage' at some random church? You can turn around and go "You are not married according to my beliefs". Your marriages can have the certificates and be certified by your church/sect. It could mean something, especially as you are before god making your vows, it means something to you, opposed to all these others who were just 'married' else where.

Since you are married, your kids wouldn't be bastards (at least by definition) anyway.

Also, it isn't legally untidy. I don't see how it is in the slightest and if anything, it makes things legally more tidy, as there are less loophoops, tax evasion, and all those wonderful things.