Is it....

[Fisherking]

There has to be more!




Back story!

[ELITEofWARMANGINGERYBREADMEN88]

She's cute, she's single and was always friendly. Granted things change in the past almost 7 years since I last saw her, but all I know is she's cute, single and got her as a Facebook friend

[Fisherking]

Sure, there is nothing wrong with asking.

Chances are good!

but that might make rejection, oh, so much worse.

Kidding...just ask.

[ELITEofWARMANGINGERYBREADMEN88]

Because I asked once and she said no, but that was the week before school started, last weekend off, so everyone was moving back to the dorm's, so I'll ask one last time.

[A Nerd]

Bear a rose for doe eyes. It's beautiful man!

[Subotan]

I don't mean this in a nasty way, but if you never get the initiative to be able to decide things like this on your own, you're not going to get any of the experience and, crucially, confidence for getting a girlfriend let alone a proper relationship.

Look at the case study you're talking about. So, you haven't seen her for seven years, I'm assuming you used to be friends, she's single, she's cute; why would you even think twice about whether or not it's "OK"?!? Sure, the way you actually go about doing it you should definitely think about, and going to the mall seems like a good idea, but seriously this should be a no-brainer.

EDIT: Now, actual dilemmas (I'm not giving an example, as you'll know if you're in one later in life) are a different story, but you're better off talking about that with your closest friends than guys on the internet.

[Fisherking]

Set your self up for success. You don’t need to rush your self. Have confidence that it will go well.

It will be fine.

[Peasant Phill]

I don't mean this in a nasty way, but if you never get the initiative to be able to decide things like this on your own, you're not going to get any of the experience and, crucially, confidence for getting a girlfriend let alone a proper relationship.

Look at the case study you're talking about. So, you haven't seen her for seven years, I'm assuming you used to be friends, she's single, she's cute; why would you even think twice about whether or not it's "OK"?!? Sure, the way you actually go about doing it you should definitely think about, and going to the mall seems like a good idea.

If you remember just one post in this thread this should be it. When did asking a girl you used to be friendly with to spend some time together a dilemma? You don't have to seduce her, you don't have to charm her, just ask. And if she says no, then so be it. this doesn't require courage, only the ability to communicate.