Quote Originally Posted by ELITECubKingWarman88 View Post
I'm not hurt. Doesn't bother me not one bit. Just toss this one to the pile and move on.
Come on, mate. No need to pretend it didn't affect you. It is an obvious dissapointment.

Real men treat a woman with the same amount of respect after she said no as they did before that. Don't say afterwards she's just one for the pile. If you digged this girl, then you digged her.

It's not the end of the world. Unless you are Brad Pitt, you will have to learn to deal with hearing 'no' on a pretty much regular basis. There is not a word women have said to me more often than no. With the possible exception of 'shall I buy these shoes / wink wink will you get them for me or should I get another boyfriend'.

Sometimes 'no' hurts, sometimes not all that much, but either way there is no pretending it wasn't a disspointment.