Quote Originally Posted by ELITECubKingWarman88 View Post
I just don't want to find someone when I'm 30 and not get married till I'm 35 or 40 though.
I should hope you won't have to.

I think you did the right thing. You reaquainted an old friend, and asked her to hang out with you. That's exactly how these things are supposed to work. Sorry to hear the interest wasn't mutual. At least you tried.


Just keep expessing your interest if you meet other girls you like. I guess this was the main thought behind your 'another one for the pile'.


Do you go to any places were you mingle with girls a bit? Sports? College? Work? That always helps.

If you want my tip: ask some of these girls to help you with a make-over. No really. Ask them to tell you what they think is attractive about you, and what isn't. Tell them to be blunt. You might be surprised at the result. You'd be surpised what a slight change in fashion, hair and favourite conversation subjects could do for succes with women.
Also, if you have any femakle friends, ask them to roleplay 'asking women out' with you. That's always great fun. I knew this girl once. One of our hobbies was to get drunk and practise our skills on each other. From horny looks to pick up lines. Absolute genius, great times. Ah, mostly we went completely over the top within two minutes. Still I could finetune some useful skills.