Women are confusing

**Strike For The South** · 03-17-2011, 05:44

this thread almost slipped off the page

Perish the thought

**naut** · 03-17-2011, 05:57

My only advice would be: if your only options are a chance of love/sex/fun or the fear of rejection, then the choice should be fairly obvious, because death is coming.

STOP PLAYING HARD TO GET AND BOINK HER ALREADY.

**Strike For The South** · 03-17-2011, 06:45

Originally Posted by Psychonaut

My only advice would be: if your only options are a chance of love/sex/fun or the fear of rejection, then the choice should be fairly obvious, because death is coming.

STOP PLAYING HARD TO GET AND BOINK HER ALREADY.

+!1

**PanzerJaeger** · 03-17-2011, 07:18

Originally Posted by Strike For The South

this thread almost slipped off the page

Perish the thought

**Rhyfelwyr** · 03-17-2011, 11:26

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**Sigurd** · 03-17-2011, 14:23

Originally Posted by Rhyfelwyr

Remember, I directly went and asked for her number a few weeks ago, and she said NO (or in all likelihood meant to politely say no).

So I deliberately just backed right off, told myself to just get over it because I didn't want to seem like a creep. But then it is her that initiates things again.

I guess I probably should have asked for her number again. But the above reason put me off a bit. Still, surely we made it clear we are both still interested in each other, especially when we checked to see we would both be going to the class next week (with it being the last one)?

Maybe she had a creepy boyfriend before, sending all sorts of unwanted texts or calls. She just don't want that again. Maybe that's why she needed a new phone. You should have just given her your number, to call when ever. She can hide her number when calling you...

**LeftEyeNine** · 03-17-2011, 14:32

Don't retry on the number thing. She'll give it provided things go fine. Just stay positive and interested.

**Tuuvi** · 03-17-2011, 17:03

Sounds like you're doing fine to me. Just keep talking to her, go with the flow and eventually you will get to hang out with her. Personally I don't like to ask for numbers right off the bat I usually talk to the person and build some sort of friendship first and I prefer if people do the same to me. So I don't think you need to worry about not getting her number yet.

**Rhyfelwyr** · 03-17-2011, 18:21

Gah! Don't give me conflicting advice, I'm confused enough already!

I don't want the friendship zone, and I don't think thats what either of us are aiming for (and I don't think that's where it's going either), so I'm just going to stick with Strike and Pyscho and ask for her number.