Women are confusing

**LeftEyeNine** · 03-17-2011, 19:54

The girl is already thinking about when he'll ask for the number again. I'd personally play "fine, I'd asked once, not doing it again" so as to own the upper hand of the relationship.

9 cents.

**Strike For The South** · 03-21-2011, 07:59

boom

**Rhyfelwyr** · 03-21-2011, 11:39

Well you'll all hear in a few hours...

**Strike For The South** · 03-21-2011, 14:16

This maybe your only chance to ever find love

Don't muck it up!

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**Rhyfelwyr** · 03-21-2011, 15:52

Well she didn't even turn up to the class.

lol/fml

**Upxl** · 03-23-2011, 03:51

be cocky ;)

**LeftEyeNine** · 03-23-2011, 03:52

W-wha- 0_0

**Scienter** · 03-23-2011, 12:17

Just a word from someone who has been on the receiving end of this type of behavior. It doesn't always work. In fact, it can be pretty repellant. I'm not going all feminist rage here, despite my posts in the backroom. I'm just speaking from my own experiences and those of people I know.

Originally Posted by Upxl

5-Check her out, give small hints that she has to convince you she’s worth dating.
When she speaks look at her like you’re evaluating what she’s said and how she acts.
In your mind you know she wants to go out with you because your just that cool, smart kind a guy any girl is lucky to have. But what do you think of her?Is she worth the “trouble”?
You know she is ofcours but that doesn’t mean she has to know about it,correct?

If someone treated me in the manner described above, it would be a giant turn off. If a guy made me think that I wasn't worth his time, and that I needed to convince him that I'm worth it, he would come across as douchey. It comes across as less than genuine and would probably make me lose interest, or at least reconsider.

Originally Posted by Upxl

6- be cocky, little arrogant, make little jokes about her looks or something else superficial but don’t overdo it.

Is this what pick up artists refer to as "negging?" This is extremely unattractive. If someone told me, for example, that "You look good, for your age" or some such, I would pretty much never give them my number or go out with them. I would either assume that the guy was extremely lacking in social skills, or deliberately insulting me. This is not something you do to someone you don't know well. Any woman with an ounce of self esteem won't fall for this.

Also, arrogance/cockiness can be pretty unattractive.

Originally Posted by Upxl

7-A woman always chooses the guy,but once in the dating zone a strong self confident male has the initiative. You choose when you’ll hug,kiss and all that other fine stuff lady’s provide so well.This is our power, here we thrive.Remember this,once dating you sir are in command.

Confidence is attractive, arrogance is a red flag. And confidence doesn't mean "control."