Rhyfelwyr 21:01 05-11-2011
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Hosakawa Tito 22:50 05-11-2011
Bingo!
only took 2 and a half months XD
better late than never
Rhyfelwyr 01:40 05-12-2011
Originally Posted by Prussian to the Iron:
only took 2 and a half months XD
Actually about a year if you consider the whole story. :/
eh. itll be worth it hopefully.
Patience is a virtue.
Who am i? 05:16 05-12-2011
so many puns....so many puns...
EDIT: has nothing whatsoever to do with the last post. where did that even come from? Huh...
Rhyfelwyr 15:51 05-12-2011
Will probably just meet up on campus and then go for lunch or something.
Man, I've no idea what I'm doing...
Walks in the park are good, so long as the weather is nice.
Be spontanious. Don't plan. It can reap it's own rewards without you even knowing. A well thought out course of action will breed hiccups.
Originally Posted by Rhyfelwr:
Will probably just meet up on campus and then go for lunch or something.
Man, I've no idea what I'm doing...
Ask her out somewhere and don't stuter when you do it
Originally Posted by Rhyfelwr:
Will probably just meet up on campus and then go for lunch or something.
Man, I've no idea what I'm doing...
Rhyfelwyr 15:46 05-13-2011
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Scienter 15:48 05-13-2011
Originally Posted by Rhyfelwr:
So I was talking to her after the exam and in the end I asked for her number... and got it!
Yay!
Louis VI the Fat 18:15 05-13-2011
Originally Posted by :
Have you got a nurse outfit?
This text, this weekend. Well Friday or Saturday, not Sunday afternoon.
Next Saturday night, you text her from a bar you are with friends. Or from someplace else where it looks as if you've got a life, contrary to digital evidence to the contrary, which is only known to us. Tell her to come over. Then do your thing.
Originally Posted by Rhyfelwr:
Well...
I asked about meeting up later next week but she said she will be in Newcastle. So I said maybe another time then (or something like that), and she said she would be back next Saturday night and I should send her a text then.
Just remmeber this will be the only woman whomever pays you any sort of romantic attention
DONT SCREW IT UP
Rhyfelwyr 00:04 05-14-2011
What the hell am I supposed to make of this I don't know. Everything is ***** cryptic.
Remember to follow these tips I learned in middle school:
1. Prepping. Make sure you have sprayed at least 1-2 cans of Axe body spray on your body. This will cover up the stench of failure and Mountain Dew Game Fuel you spilled on your shirt while playing Call of Duty 8: The same thing as last time warfare 4.
2. Mid game. As any hardcore gamer will tell you, a good start is key and a good clutch at the finish is what makes you pro, but the mid game is where the game is decided. Don't let her talk so much, because once she starts talking for more than 5 minutes your "paying attention" will just start looking like a creeper stare. Make sure you talk about 75% of the time and a lot so she knows how cool you are.
3. Don't show emotion. Women like men. Not boys. If you show emotion like a 5 year old, she wont roll with you. If she is sad, put on your poker face. If she is angry, put on your poker face. If she is happy, put on your poker face.
4. Lastly, make sure you look like you are in control of your life. While on your date, always make it a point to obviously look at other women as they walk by. This will show how little you need her. Women dont like it when guys get all clingy and dependent. Makes you look weak. Checking out all the other girls will introduce a competitive nature in her. The free market works wonders, and by having her think there is more demand (other women) than there is supply (your body) she will be wanting you even more and willing to pay a higher price for it. I just learned all this in my AP Econ class so you dont have to double check me cuz I got a C+. I would have gotten a B but that jerk Mr. Carmona didn't let me turn in my project late.
SO there you go. You should be fine now as long as you stick to those rules.
Hosakawa Tito 12:48 05-14-2011
Just be yourself. Trying to be someone you're not won't work for long, if at all.
Originally Posted by a completely inoffensive name:
Remember to follow these tips I learned in middle school:
1. Prepping. Make sure you have sprayed at least 1-2 cans of Axe body spray on your body. This will cover up the stench of failure and Mountain Dew Game Fuel you spilled on your shirt while playing Call of Duty 8: The same thing as last time warfare 4.
2. Mid game. As any hardcore gamer will tell you, a good start is key and a good clutch at the finish is what makes you pro, but the mid game is where the game is decided. Don't let her talk so much, because once she starts talking for more than 5 minutes your "paying attention" will just start looking like a creeper stare. Make sure you talk about 75% of the time and a lot so she knows how cool you are.
3. Don't show emotion. Women like men. Not boys. If you show emotion like a 5 year old, she wont roll with you. If she is sad, put on your poker face. If she is angry, put on your poker face. If she is happy, put on your poker face.
4. Lastly, make sure you look like you are in control of your life. While on your date, always make it a point to obviously look at other women as they walk by. This will show how little you need her. Women dont like it when guys get all clingy and dependent. Makes you look weak. Checking out all the other girls will introduce a competitive nature in her. The free market works wonders, and by having her think there is more demand (other women) than there is supply (your body) she will be wanting you even more and willing to pay a higher price for it. I just learned all this in my AP Econ class so you dont have to double check me cuz I got a C+. I would have gotten a B but that jerk Mr. Carmona didn't let me turn in my project late.
SO there you go. You should be fine now as long as you stick to those rules.
This is so win right now.
If the girl likes you based on observation and interaction before a date was set up, one would assume it was based on sincerity of character, especially the observation part which I assume was done in class. Therefore this must be continued to ensure success, in my opinion. To act like you are not might be unappealing if that is not what she was interested in the first place. To act unlike yourself in contrast to what you are in sincerity will look pompous. Unless you are pompous in general and that is what she likes. The OP doesn't seem that way though thur reading his posts.
Rhyfelwyr 20:29 05-14-2011
Heh. But I'm not even a gamer. Plus I never said anything about changing myself.
You my friend have just got the women!
Welcome to the Frontroom Takeda! :) I think that Rhyfelwr will do well.
Rhyfelwyr 19:35 05-15-2011
idk I don't feel overly optimistic right now. Why the hell would she give me her number. If she jsut says text back.
Maybe she is really away and I am being stupid, jsut the whole text thign. but BAH!
Originally Posted by Rhyfelwr:
idk I don't feel overly optimistic right now. Why the hell would she give me her number. If she jsut says text back.
Maybe she is really away and I am being stupid, jsut the whole text thign. but BAH!
Dude I think you're reading too much into it. Just text her on Saturday like she told you too, she was probably telling the truth about being away.
I think I'm the same way you are when it comes to girls. There's this girl I've been good friends with for a couple years and after a while I really started to like her, so I asked her if she wanted to go out when school is done. She said yes, but then when we set the date she said she would invite her twin sister, and all this other stuff happened, so I keep thinking OH NO WHAT IF SHE DOESN'T REALLY WANT TO GO OUT WITH ME WHAT AM I GOING TO DO WHY DID SHE SAY YES IN THE FIRST PLACE or when I go talk to her she might be quiet because she's tired or whatever reason and the first thing that pops into my head is CRAP SHE'S MAD AT ME BECAUSE SHE DOESN'T REALLY WANT TO GO OUT WITH ME

I've realized that I just need to stop. Stop worrying about it, stop over analyzing, stop being insecure and thinking I've done something wrong when I obviously haven't. I just need to go with the flow and see how it turns out.
So my advice to you is stop thinking about it, be patient and be persistent (but not stalker persistent

). If she really is just making excuses and trying to blow you off well that's her fault not yours she needs to learn to be straight up with you if she wants to get you off her back.
I'm supposed to go see Pirates of the Carribbean with that girl in a week and a half or so and then we'll see if my advice is any good.
If it's a ploy, it's a ploy. Worrying about it won't change the fact. As Chuchip said, just roll with it and hope for the best.
Originally Posted by Rhyfelwr:
idk I don't feel overly optimistic right now. Why the hell would she give me her number. If she jsut says text back.
Maybe she is really away and I am being stupid, jsut the whole text thign. but BAH!
Well well. Happy thinking.
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