ups didn´t know that - no, i can´t babysit the romaioi anymore ...since anytime in my campaigns when they´re actually beaten and only have some northern barbarian province left without money ...they still produce somehow lots of annoying troops and lots of Family members - so i made ultimate peace with them.
also in previous campaigns i did try often to offer a province as a gift to an ally - strangely enough only once it was accepted - and it was a long time ally - so i have my doubts if the AI for the romans will allow that.

but i have to mod something now anyway... just dont know how?
@Cute Wolf - how do you remove this condition - EDB? .. and what you mean with: make most faction had their late "BG"? by default as well?