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    Default Re: How do I come out of this situation without looking like a fool?

    Quote Originally Posted by JuJuBee View Post
    What do you wish to accomplish with one or both of these women in the next couple of weeks? Perhaps that can guide your actions.
    I think that is an excellent response. You need to have a purpose and an objective, and let that guide your actions. Not making up your mind and acting randomly could hurt both you and them. Remember that both of them are probably emotionally in a very fragile state. Do you really want to lead one of them on or cause one or both of them hurt so that you can have the satisfaction of bragging of dating two girls? My advice would be to go with the one that you want, who you think will fulfill your needs best, and very gently let the other down.
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    It is possible to keep both dates with these women, I have no idea why everyone seems to think you need to choose one right now

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    Quote Originally Posted by Strike For The South View Post
    It is possible to keep both dates with these women, I have no idea why everyone seems to think you need to choose one right now

    The org befuddles me sometimes
    You know, I was sort of thinking the same thing...these girls know he is leaving in a few weeks, could it well be possible that they are not actually expecting anything to come from this relationship? Perhaps they are turning to him because they know he is leaving soon, and thus is a "safe" rebound? What is wrong with saying he is not ready for something committed or exclusive, and is just looking to get to know people and have a good time? It would seem to me that the girls in this case are probably expecting nothing more than a short fling or good time either...and if they are then they are incredibly naieve (not a word I think of when I think of the Russian women I know)

    Then I got to thinking about another person I recently heard about...in a foreign land, had consentual sex with two different women in short succession without telling each about the other...you probably heard of him too...Julian Assange. As you know, he is now being charged with Rape over this, as I recall part of the claim was that "changing partners so fast is in itself a form of deception", and having "deceived" them it nullified the terms or expectations of the consent...

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    I lol'd

    But srsly why can he not keep dates with both women, they are just dates and he has made not commintent to either of them. Take them both for a spin.

    But on the other hand DBNB either, if the ask about eachother tell them truth
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    Default Re: How do I come out of this situation without looking like a fool?

    i dont see a reason to not try both out for a first date. just make sure things dont get too hairy before you leave, or life'll be hell.

    also get laid by at least one. just my opinion.
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