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So there is this older girl in a serpate class that I know from a prior field trip back in Februaby. I went on this Field trip to Chicago this past week and it was a 1 3/4 day trip and we all had fun (her and other guy was the two clowns of the group, had us all in stiches). So, it is rather attractive (even though she had a kid and might be in a relationship but I don't think so). It seems like a very outgoing person and I wanted to hang out with her more on the trip but didn't have the chance. Since we back in Pittsburgh it's a different story, I like to hang out with her more now, if I could anyhow.
Any thoughts on how to pursure this without coming across the wrong way?
.So there is this older girl in a serpate class that I know from a prior field trip back in Februaby. I went on this Field trip to Chicago this past week and it was a 1 3/4 day trip and we all had fun (her and other guy was the two clowns of the group, had us all in stiches). So, it is rather attractive (even though she had a kid and might be in a relationship but I don't think so). It seems like a very outgoing person and I wanted to hang out with her more on the trip but didn't have the chance. Since we back in Pittsburgh it's a different story, I like to hang out with her more now, if I could anyhow.
Any thoughts on how to pursure this without coming across the wrong way?
just train up your confidence, learn to speak seductive talks in front of mirrors, try to be friendly with her (not creepy, and don't even talk about sex at first, try to be friendly just like young cassanova). Try to be friendly and caring, but don't overdo it and try to be mysterious a bit (don't say you are a loner and don't even brag about your lonesomeness, just try to be happy and fulfilled with this life)
Doing physical exercise routinely to build your muscles will help a lot, girls love well-bodied men. Maybe you should start to taste a cigarrete or two, girls digs bad guys, and guys who smoke is easier to get girlfriends (taking you are arround the age of 20's).
You mention she maybe in some sort of relationships, that meant the best you can have is "friends with benefits", not bad for short term fun, but beware if you want long-term relationships, do the opposite of my advice
Doing physical exercise routinely to build your muscles will help a lot, girls love well-bodied men. Maybe you should start to taste a cigarrete or two, girls digs bad guys, and guys who smoke is easier to get girlfriends (taking you are arround the age of 20's).
You mention she maybe in some sort of relationships, that meant the best you can have is "friends with benefits", not bad for short term fun, but beware if you want long-term relationships, do the opposite of my advice
Originally Posted by Rahwana:
just train up your confidence, learn to speak seductive talks in front of mirrors, try to be friendly with her (not creepy, and don't even talk about sex at first, try to be friendly just like young cassanova). Try to be friendly and caring, but don't overdo it and try to be mysterious a bit (don't say you are a loner and don't even brag about your lonesomeness, just try to be happy and fulfilled with this life)
Doing physical exercise routinely to build your muscles will help a lot, girls love well-bodied men. Maybe you should start to taste a cigarrete or two, girls digs bad guys, and guys who smoke is easier to get girlfriends (taking you are arround the age of 20's).
You mention she maybe in some sort of relationships, that meant the best you can have is "friends with benefits", not bad for short term fun, but beware if you want long-term relationships, do the opposite of my advice
just train up your confidence, learn to speak seductive talks in front of mirrors, try to be friendly with her (not creepy, and don't even talk about sex at first, try to be friendly just like young cassanova). Try to be friendly and caring, but don't overdo it and try to be mysterious a bit (don't say you are a loner and don't even brag about your lonesomeness, just try to be happy and fulfilled with this life)
Doing physical exercise routinely to build your muscles will help a lot, girls love well-bodied men. Maybe you should start to taste a cigarrete or two, girls digs bad guys, and guys who smoke is easier to get girlfriends (taking you are arround the age of 20's).
You mention she maybe in some sort of relationships, that meant the best you can have is "friends with benefits", not bad for short term fun, but beware if you want long-term relationships, do the opposite of my advice
Friends with benefits could work or even a long term friendship would be good to.
She said on our train ride out there to a classmate sitting next to her that she was "pissed" off at the guy she was with because I guess he was insecure or something, I didn't want to ply so I tried not to listen in much you see. But on the way back to Pittsburgh few days later after the inital anger went off, she said in one way she wants to give him another chance and after that drop him off for good if he screws up again and on the other hand she doesn't trust him.
So with that, it makes it hard to proceed you know. I am on her friends list on FB so I can keep tabs on her stauts relationship wise there, but to get any true info I have to talk with her in person of course. She is 9 years older then me but still trying to figure out why I like her so much for.
My toughest military campgain yet!
don't worry, as a fact, older girls are more stupidly emotional than younger one in the department of relationships. Plus they are more ripe and can teach you a trick or two when getting laid 
. I suggest you start to read some classical poems and start to realize the beauty inside your mind, and practice some charismatic speech, the plus points if you can do that with innocent faces, older girls can't resist it.
You can act as "if" you only intend to become her friends, giving your shoulder when she seems worried, and generally pay some attentions to her (not too many or your covers will be blown). Try to be helpful with her works or chores, older girls in 25-30's (or older) appreciate little but helpful helps. And try to play to her house and become familiar with her (don't try to go for botty to soon, advance slowly but surely). If you're playing your friendly game good, I bet in 2 or 3 months, she'll get you laid :D
. I suggest you start to read some classical poems and start to realize the beauty inside your mind, and practice some charismatic speech, the plus points if you can do that with innocent faces, older girls can't resist it.You can act as "if" you only intend to become her friends, giving your shoulder when she seems worried, and generally pay some attentions to her (not too many or your covers will be blown). Try to be helpful with her works or chores, older girls in 25-30's (or older) appreciate little but helpful helps. And try to play to her house and become familiar with her (don't try to go for botty to soon, advance slowly but surely). If you're playing your friendly game good, I bet in 2 or 3 months, she'll get you laid :D
Originally Posted by ELITEofKingWarman8:
So, it is rather attractive
So, it is rather attractive
Your last? Come on, who are you kidding? :P 
Originally Posted by ELITEofKingWarman8:
She is 9 years older then me but still trying to figure out why I like her so much for.
Aren't you 20 or something? 20-29 is a big difference, you're at completely different stages in life.She is 9 years older then me but still trying to figure out why I like her so much for.
Originally Posted by Vuk:
Your last? Come on, who are you kidding? :P
Your last? Come on, who are you kidding? :P
Me!Originally Posted by Rhyfelwyr:
Aren't you 20 or something? 20-29 is a big difference, you're at completely different stages in life.
19, she's just turned 28. So?Aren't you 20 or something? 20-29 is a big difference, you're at completely different stages in life.
Originally Posted by Husar:
I meant "she" .Originally Posted by Rahwana:
don't worry, as a fact, older girls are more stupidly emotional than younger one in the department of relationships. Plus they are more ripe and can teach you a trick or two when getting laid . I suggest you start to read some classical poems and start to realize the beauty inside your mind, and practice some charismatic speech, the plus points if you can do that with innocent faces, older girls can't resist it.
You can act as "if" you only intend to become her friends, giving your shoulder when she seems worried, and generally pay some attentions to her (not too many or your covers will be blown). Try to be helpful with her works or chores, older girls in 25-30's (or older) appreciate little but helpful helps. And try to play to her house and become familiar with her (don't try to go for botty to soon, advance slowly but surely). If you're playing your friendly game good, I bet in 2 or 3 months, she'll get you laid :D
Could not help but smile at your post here don't worry, as a fact, older girls are more stupidly emotional than younger one in the department of relationships. Plus they are more ripe and can teach you a trick or two when getting laid
. I suggest you start to read some classical poems and start to realize the beauty inside your mind, and practice some charismatic speech, the plus points if you can do that with innocent faces, older girls can't resist it.You can act as "if" you only intend to become her friends, giving your shoulder when she seems worried, and generally pay some attentions to her (not too many or your covers will be blown). Try to be helpful with her works or chores, older girls in 25-30's (or older) appreciate little but helpful helps. And try to play to her house and become familiar with her (don't try to go for botty to soon, advance slowly but surely). If you're playing your friendly game good, I bet in 2 or 3 months, she'll get you laid :D
.Originally Posted by Husar:
I could not agree more. I question your tastes, Warman.you are 19 and she is 28?
maybe that wasn't love, that was admiration to older "sister", better search someone at your age
maybe that wasn't love, that was admiration to older "sister", better search someone at your age
She's 28? Then this is a woman thread, not a "girl" thread.
Also, 28 is close to 30, a magical number that makes biological clocks tick harder...
A difference of 9 years is ok if you're older than 30, but at your age, 9 years is an awful lot. I know I lived in a complete different world with a complete different mindset at the age of 20 compared to now. Something to keep in mind.
Also, 28 is close to 30, a magical number that makes biological clocks tick harder...
A difference of 9 years is ok if you're older than 30, but at your age, 9 years is an awful lot. I know I lived in a complete different world with a complete different mindset at the age of 20 compared to now. Something to keep in mind.
Look up the D.E.N.N.I.S. method and thank me later.
28 is really really old dude......
Who knows how much she will be willing to hear about cashews and milk as well.
I think you may not be referring to her as "it" enough.
Women love that, right?
CR
Women love that, right?
CR
Understand this before doing anything: She is much older than you and in a completely different state of mind when it comes to these things. You might find it difficult for her to take you seriously, and her life-priorities (not just romantic ones) are likely on different continents than those of your own. Metaphorically speaking of course.
That being said: If you want a chance at her, man the
up and step up to the plate.
That being said: If you want a chance at her, man the
up and step up to the plate.I'm puzzled that people are still trying to give serious advice to what is self-evidently a ludicrous and doomed attempt.
Originally Posted by Subotan:
I'm puzzled that people are still trying to give serious advice to what is self-evidently a ludicrous and doomed attempt.
That's one of my favorite words, right up there with preposterous and gargantuan. Hardly ever have a chance to use them daily though.I'm puzzled that people are still trying to give serious advice to what is self-evidently a ludicrous and doomed attempt.
Originally Posted by a completely inoffensive name:
Look up the D.E.N.N.I.S. method and thank me later.
I just did. Look up the D.E.N.N.I.S. method and thank me later.
Originally Posted by Centurion1:
28 is really really old dude......
Then I'm getting old fast to! 28 is really really old dude......
Originally Posted by JuJuBee:
Who knows how much she will be willing to hear about cashews and milk as well.
Who knows how much she will be willing to hear about cashews and milk as well.
Originally Posted by Crazed Rabbit:
I think you may not be referring to her as "it" enough.
Women love that, right?
CR
I think you may not be referring to her as "it" enough.
Women love that, right?
CR
Originally Posted by Monk:
Understand this before doing anything: She is much older than you and in a completely different state of mind when it comes to these things. You might find it difficult for her to take you seriously, and her life-priorities (not just romantic ones) are likely on different continents than those of your own. Metaphorically speaking of course.
That being said: If you want a chance at her, man the up and step up to the plate.
Line of the day right their folks. I do my best. Proably will fail, but hey, what the hell! Understand this before doing anything: She is much older than you and in a completely different state of mind when it comes to these things. You might find it difficult for her to take you seriously, and her life-priorities (not just romantic ones) are likely on different continents than those of your own. Metaphorically speaking of course.
That being said: If you want a chance at her, man the
up and step up to the plate.Originally Posted by Subotan:
I'm puzzled that people are still trying to give serious advice to what is self-evidently a ludicrous and doomed attempt.
Like I said, what the hell, lets try anyhow! I'm puzzled that people are still trying to give serious advice to what is self-evidently a ludicrous and doomed attempt.
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