Chicks are completely mental

[Prussian to the Iron]

...in the way of meaning "crazy" or "insane".

So this girl that i asked out in november turned me down and then lied about me, and we had a falling out sort of thing. January she asked me to forgive her, I did, we were friends since. But just about every time we talked since, she says something to the effect of "you're not getting anywhere with me" (Ex: I jokingly said 'hop off', and she said 'i was never on, and never will be'), and continually restates it for whatever reason. So, based off this, it's safe to assume she's not interested at all, right? if only it were that simple.

I asked her out again 'bout a month and a half ago, and she said no again. but it was fine, we were still friends and all. But then she started skyping me EVERY SINGLE DAY. I understand wanting to talk to me, but every day? most people don't do that. she also told me several times about dreams that she had of me (of a sexual nature), before then going on to say, again, that it would never happen. and in addition, whenever we see eachother she always tells me to sit next to her, saying she'd be lonely, despite being surrounded by her friends.

So, basically I'm getting incredibly mixed messages from this girl. It seems to me that she thinks of me in an inherently sexual way, but then stops herself before she wants to do anything. But, considering it's me, I could easily be way far off.

I don't wanna be a dick and tell her to quit skyping me every day, but considering she keeps telling me (and maybe herself?) that she has no intentions of being anything but friends, I don't feel like taking an hour away from my day to talk to her. What am I supposed to do?

[A Nerd]

Sell all your underpants, join facebook and quit the gym!

[naut]

Chicks aren't mental. However, that one does sound at the least, manipulative.

I don't wanna be a dick and tell her to quit skyping me every day, but considering she keeps telling me (and maybe herself?) that she has no intentions of being anything but friends, I don't feel like taking an hour away from my day to talk to her. What am I supposed to do?

If you don't enjoy skyping with her, either don't skype with her or tell her to kindly refrain as you have stuff to do. Simples.

On the question of her other stuff, well, basically it's an extension of the friend zone, you are her "emotional boyfriend". Someone who will listen to her whinging and issues, without actually being in a relationship with her. Politely tell her to stop leading you up the garden path.

[The Stranger]

just kiss her.

[Hosakawa Tito]

Sounds like you could be her boy toy.

[Centurion1]

booty calls are the best way to discover proficiency in bed if it goes down that way relish it. This girl wants you but she probably doesn't want to deal with all of you. Meaning she may want to sleep with you but not go out with you. Or she may just be a manipulative female. Or she may just be really flirtatious. I am really flirtatious and its happened before when people think I like them but I am truly not interested im just a flirter, some people are to varying degrees.

Either way flip the tables on her and dont let her manipulate you. You manipulate her. And stop asking her out for Gods sakes your just giving her immense power.

[Strike For The South]

Don't answer skype

Quit worrying

move on

+1 Pshyconuat

[Husar]

Ignore her for a while, like set your skype status to busy and don't reply or don't sign up to skype in the first place.
If she asks (for example through other means) why you don't talk to her as much anymore tell her "Well, I don't have as much time for that anymore, I'm looking for a girlfriend and since you keep telling me you're out, I gotta spend my time elsewhere..."
Or something like that.

[Centurion1]

Also about skype. Is that what the chilluns is doing now? Why the hell would you skype someone you go to high school with and see the next day. I don't even like skyping people I am phsically far away from. Use the damn phone or wait.

[Subotan]

This thread makes me feel like a Biblical Prophet.

I'm cutting this post short, as I'm just going off to make pancakes with a Brazilian girl.

[Centurion1]

Oh btw its interesting to see how prussians girl threads have evolved in their problems.

[Prussian to the Iron]

Oh btw its interesting to see how prussians girl threads have evolved in their problems.

I was actually thinking about that. but considering I joined as a 13 year old, it makes sense.

[Subotan]

Oh btw its interesting to see how prussians girl threads have evolved in their problems.

Dibs on this as my thesis proposal.

[Hooahguy]

Why not a friends with benefits relationship?

[Prussian to the Iron]

Why not a friends with benefits relationship?

How exactly am I supposed to pitch that?

[Populus Romanus]

I was actually thinking about that. but considering I joined as a 13 year old, it makes sense.

LIAR!!! Your profile says you are 106 years old!

[Prussian to the Iron]

LIAR!!! Your profile says you are 106 years old!

shhhhhhhhhhh. we cant let the girlies find that out ;)

[Centurion1]

How exactly am I supposed to pitch that?

you hook up once. then you keep doing it and never mention a relationship. There is no pitching required. Just be ready for her to leave you because your nothing but a warm and competent body. (this all assumes you wow her the first time).

Also these sorts of relationships (i.e. friends with benefits) will become drastically more common as you get older. In college its quite commonplace.

[Prussian to the Iron]

she already said she wont hook up with me though. despite obviously thinking about me like that.

[Hax]

Before I met my current girlfriend, I was kind of involved in a friends-with-benefits relationship. It was all kind of silly because she had obvious issues and wouldn't kiss me in public, but in private, she taught me a lot of things. There are obvious benefits. Although I should probably mentioned that the girl was three years older than I and had loads of experience, if-you-know-what-I-mean.

My current girlfriend has no experience whatsoever, but I really couldn't care less.

[Hosakawa Tito]

Ignore her for a while, like set your skype status to busy and don't reply or don't sign up to skype in the first place.
If she asks (for example through other means) why you don't talk to her as much anymore tell her "Well, I don't have as much time for that anymore, I'm looking for a girlfriend and since you keep telling me you're out, I gotta spend my time elsewhere..."
Or something like that.

There ya go. Two can play hard to get. See how the little tease reacts to some disinterest from you. Don't let her manipulate you like that.

[Prussian to the Iron]

problem is, in 2 weeks im leaving to florida fr the entire summer, so i only have these last 2 weeks to make any sorta move. i dont know if playing hard to get will work that quickly

[Centurion1]

dear god man you have next year you arent moving away for your lifetime

[Crazed Rabbit]

It is as Psychonaut says.

Don't worry about leaving for the summer; she's rebuffed previous advances and new ones won't work.

CR

[naut]

I'm cutting this post short, as I'm just going off to make pancakes with a Brazilian girl.

Really? I don't let them stay around for breakfast.

[Centurion1]

Really? I don't let them stay around for breakfast.

i declare psycho the winner.

[Strike For The South]

Really? I don't let them stay around for breakfast.

Pah, leave them better for having crossed paths you

[Subotan]

Really? I don't let them stay around for breakfast.

She was going to make them for breakfast, but she forgot - so we made them for dinner instead.

[Prussian to the Iron]

Right....so I think that door is FIRMLY shut. she asked me if i was mad, i told her i was confused, and explained to her my whole theory.

after quick refusal, i used an argument based mostly around Freud and the unconscious mind, which controls dreams, and the fact that im in her dreams so much makes me a sex object in her subconcious. yeah. it went THAT badly.

Psychology + Emotions + Sex + Girls=not good.

[Centurion1]

you sir are an imbecile with woman.