Your the first person I have seen complaining that the 'tactical battles' in the first two games are impossible to play. Usually the consensus is that the first game had the best tactical battles but not the greatest graphics. Might I suggest that its more a question of your inability to play the battles in the first two games rather than something lacking in the battles themselves? The battles in rome and medieval 2 were poor and the games themselves were obviously aimed children.
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