To be honest, I have been guity of holding an EnderPearl in my hand when entering a dangerous ara (yes, you may say "chicken" now).

Having the /home option as a quick escape from an attack has been a big comfort of mind. But I agree, it is kind of cheap and more fair to get rid of that aspect somehow even if it takes a toll on Nigel's nerves and adds a few more grey hairs to his head.