Quote Originally Posted by Rhyfhylwyr View Post
But seriously, if you aren't 'getting some' on a casual basis, it gets you motivated to get out there more and look for somebody.
Well, in that case you may have married the wrong partner, a person who loves you would naturally want to make sure you're 'getting enough', wouldn't they?

A lot of men complain that they stopped 'getting any' after marriage and use that as a reason to decry marriage. I usually think their marriage is probably based on the wrong ideas/things, whatever those are, sex could be one, money another.

There are also men who keep saying they only get manipulative women etc. but they keep looking for women in the same places and for the same types of women that may attract them more physically. IMO it's no surprise then that they keep having the same problems with women.

And then men and women also create bubbles,just making themselves look better or even lying about things, being especially charming etc. that will naturally burst after a while and only serve for initial attraction.
Necessary in a way but if it's completely overdone and you base a relationship on it, failure may be pre-programmed.

Just my two cents from an observer's POV.