Another girl thread

**Monk** · 03-14-2012, 13:17

Stop making this more complicated than it needs to be.

**Visor** · 03-14-2012, 13:25

Problem is I'm clueless as to what to do next.

Help please...

Do you want to come here everytime you meet a girl?

You can only learn by trying. Don't come here to learn what to do, if you're bold enough to go over and get her number then you know enough to do whatever need to.

**Rhyfelwyr** · 03-14-2012, 16:48

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**gaelic cowboy** · 03-14-2012, 16:55

Originally Posted by Rhyfhylwyr

Guys I don't think you are understanding me, I'm not asking how to form a deep spiritual connection.

The thing I don't get is do younger people tend to go more for 'hanging out' these days rather than more formal dates.

For example, me and a few of the guys from work are going to a pub and later a club on Friday. Would it be appropriate to ask her if she wants to come along?

Is that the sort of thing someone my age would ask a girl to do if he had never met her and just got her number?

Thats where texting is great today send a little message and sound her out on meeting up in town later.

important thing is to get her replying.

**Rhyfelwyr** · 03-14-2012, 18:43

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**Peasant Phill** · 03-15-2012, 00:18

Originally Posted by Rhyfhylwyr

I'm thinking tomorrow (Thursday) I will give her a call.

Because first of all I have to buy a mobile phone tonight. (yeah, lol... was gonna get one anyway for my job interviews).

And just say hey want to meet up tomorrow night at 11 with some of the ones from work (not too late?).

If she says yeah great, if she says no I'll just say well you have my number now you can call if you want to meet up, and leave the ball in her court.

This thread is just because I am not sure what the social norms are with these things, I live a very isolated life from mainstream society.

That sounds perfect. Don't take 'social norms' to serious, just do what makes sense.
Best of luck.

**Rhyfelwyr** · 03-15-2012, 02:40

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**Secura** · 03-15-2012, 10:34

Originally Posted by Rhyfhylwyr

And just say hey want to meet up tomorrow night at 11 with some of the ones from work (not too late?).

If you want to get to know this girl beyond the possibility of the horizontal samba, then an atmosphere of your mates (boys will be boys), alcohol and loud music isn't really the way to go. That's not to say you want to go for intimate, candlelight stuff, but the pub/club scene doesn't make for a good first date, too many distractions.

What exciting things are there to do in your area?