Another girl thread

[Rhyfelwyr]

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[Peasant Phill]

I'm thinking tomorrow (Thursday) I will give her a call.

Because first of all I have to buy a mobile phone tonight. (yeah, lol... was gonna get one anyway for my job interviews).

And just say hey want to meet up tomorrow night at 11 with some of the ones from work (not too late?).

If she says yeah great, if she says no I'll just say well you have my number now you can call if you want to meet up, and leave the ball in her court.

This thread is just because I am not sure what the social norms are with these things, I live a very isolated life from mainstream society.

That sounds perfect. Don't take 'social norms' to serious, just do what makes sense.
Best of luck.

[Rhyfelwyr]

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[Secura]

And just say hey want to meet up tomorrow night at 11 with some of the ones from work (not too late?).

If you want to get to know this girl beyond the possibility of the horizontal samba, then an atmosphere of your mates (boys will be boys), alcohol and loud music isn't really the way to go. That's not to say you want to go for intimate, candlelight stuff, but the pub/club scene doesn't make for a good first date, too many distractions.

What exciting things are there to do in your area?

[Andres]

I would take her to a pub without your friends, to be honest

[Rhyfelwyr]

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[Peasant Phill]

Well I called her but she said she was staying in tomorrow.

Just said well you've got my number now if you want to meet up.

I'm not even sure she was old enough to go to the pub like I suggested. (eh... lol)

At least that's some experience there, got a girl's number out of the blue after all.

Too bad. Oh wel, nothing gained but nothing lost.

Now can we please go back to discussing where the first date should be had?
Both the intimate approach as the public approach have their merits. Focus vs. safety in numbers I would say.

[Centurion1]

intimate is creepy for a first date with someone you just met.

coffee is a win, coffee is always a win.

going out with your group to the club or bar and bringing her along is a win also.

[a completely inoffensive name]

The only reasonable person in here is PJ. One of my friends got 600+ naked pics from around 80+ fellow high school girls just by asking. He also committed sexual assault by pretending to be his brother's fingers. But that's another story in itself. Point is, hit the gym, lawyer up and delete your facebook because you never want to stick your appendages in crazy.

EDIT: Also, if it requires a fist, it's no longer foreplay.

[Fragony]

intimate is creepy for a first date with someone you just met.

coffee is a win, coffee is always a win.

going out with your group to the club or bar and bringing her along is a win also.

Lunch you ijjit. It's never a date it's just lunch.