Another girl thread

[Rhyfelwyr]

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[Peasant Phill]

Well I called her but she said she was staying in tomorrow.

Just said well you've got my number now if you want to meet up.

I'm not even sure she was old enough to go to the pub like I suggested. (eh... lol)

At least that's some experience there, got a girl's number out of the blue after all.

Too bad. Oh wel, nothing gained but nothing lost.

Now can we please go back to discussing where the first date should be had?
Both the intimate approach as the public approach have their merits. Focus vs. safety in numbers I would say.

[Centurion1]

intimate is creepy for a first date with someone you just met.

coffee is a win, coffee is always a win.

going out with your group to the club or bar and bringing her along is a win also.

[a completely inoffensive name]

The only reasonable person in here is PJ. One of my friends got 600+ naked pics from around 80+ fellow high school girls just by asking. He also committed sexual assault by pretending to be his brother's fingers. But that's another story in itself. Point is, hit the gym, lawyer up and delete your facebook because you never want to stick your appendages in crazy.

EDIT: Also, if it requires a fist, it's no longer foreplay.

[A Nerd]

I have never had much luck with spur of the moment number askings. Such relationships require grooming. That won't even work all the time. If you can read her expressions, then this should guide your conversations. Disinterest or interest should be easy to note. A casual place to meet with a modest crowd might be the best place to go. So she feels comfortable in her surroundings and you can conversate without the fear of your perhaps being too forward. A nice safety if you will. Don't leave the next meeting up to her. Persue modestly.

You never know, some women might find your inexperience and shyness (lack of experience) becoming. Not to mention your maturity, Mr. 50 year old 22 year old. ;)

[PanzerJaeger]

The only reasonable person in here is PJ. One of my friends got 600+ naked pics from around 80+ fellow high school girls just by asking. He also committed sexual assault by pretending to be his brother's fingers. But that's another story in itself. Point is, hit the gym, lawyer up and delete your facebook because you never want to stick your appendages in crazy.

EDIT: Also, if it requires a fist, it's no longer foreplay.

Just saw this and LOL.

[Shaka_Khan]

Confidence is the key. Try enlisting in the army and get stationed in South Korea or Japan. You'll feel less nervous about losing a local girl there because you're going to return home anyway. You won't have to worry about meeting her and her parents again. If all goes well with a girl then you could take her home.

[rajpoot]

Confidence is the key. Try enlisting in the army and get stationed in South Korea or Japan. You'll feel less nervous about losing a local girl there because you're going to return home anyway. You won't have to worry about meeting her and her parents again. If all goes well with a girl then you could take her home.

Like curing a head ache by dropping a heavy rock on the foot.

[Montmorency]

Confidence is the key. Try enlisting in the army and get stationed in South Korea or Japan. You'll feel less nervous about losing a local girl there because you're going to return home anyway. You won't have to worry about meeting her and her parents again. If all goes well with a girl then you could take her home.

The guy's Scottish.

[Fragony]

intimate is creepy for a first date with someone you just met.

coffee is a win, coffee is always a win.

going out with your group to the club or bar and bringing her along is a win also.

Lunch you ijjit. It's never a date it's just lunch.

[a completely inoffensive name]

Hmm my last post was more than I should have shared. Maybe I should try to be more serious and not divulge the horrors of my high school experience.

You should just ask her what she is into and find something interesting about it and base the conversation off that. If you can relate it to something you are interested or some aspect about yourself, "Oh, you are an art major, that's cool. I enjoy art myself from time to time, mostly pre 1800s Japanese stuff, whats your taste?" (Idk, this seems like a **** example.) This way she knows about you, you know about her. You are not controlling the conversation and screwing it up. It's an easier flow imo to start off with then hopping in, hoping the flow of the date will just magically align.

[Centurion1]

Hmm my last post was more than I should have shared. Maybe I should try to be more serious and not divulge the horrors of my high school experience.

You should just ask her what she is into and find something interesting about it and base the conversation off that. If you can relate it to something you are interested or some aspect about yourself, "Oh, you are an art major, that's cool. I enjoy art myself from time to time, mostly pre 1800s Japanese stuff, whats your taste?" (Idk, this seems like a **** example.) This way she knows about you, you know about her. You are not controlling the conversation and screwing it up. It's an easier flow imo to start off with then hopping in, hoping the flow of the date will just magically align.

I took Acin to the Frick our first date. He put out on the first date.

[a completely inoffensive name]

I took Acin to the Frick our first date. He put out on the first date.

I was a bit tipsy that night.

EDIT: But I have no regrets >:D