This is obviously dysfunctional and not healthy. You should seek professional help in my opinion.Beyond that, I have honestly never been able to have an intimate relationship with anyone in 25 years of life and I don't expect that to ever change. The thing I have to come to terms with is that I'm only interested in women I can't ever have and I'm not able to live with someone else and modify my life accordingly.So why worry about it?
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