A short petite woman working as prison guard got attacked by one of the inmates, a big burly man sent to prison for violence. The person in the control room, another female prison guard, broke protocol and ran down with her baton drawn. The inmate grabbed the baton and went on to kill the first female guard.
That is the short version of what happened.
Now, some days ago, a Swedish actor while interviewed blamed the death on this woman on the modern Swedish feminism. The combined Swedish press of course jumped on this actor, competing in how best to ridicule him. All the while politicians and people famous on Twitter or whatever struggled frantically in how to best distance themselves from this Rogue.
Let us put aside what this say about the debate climate and rampant political dualism in Sweden, and focus on the matter at hand.
I also blame feminism!
My point is absolutely, ABSOLUTELY not that a woman should not work in a prison. Had it been a buff Ogre woman who got killed I wouldn't have cared as much or blamed it on feminism. But it was not a buff Ogre woman, it was a petite young girl.
From my perspective, men very simply have something women does NOT seem to have. The very simple but effective male code, played out over a mans entire upbringing each and every time he interacts with another man.
A guy who was 1,60 tall and weighted in at 45 or so kilos, would simply never come up with the idea to work with violent criminals. When he was 7 he would have noted that other men were better at football, and to fit into the team he will start taking a supportive role on the field, passing the ball to someone physically better than going for making the goal himself.
Growing up, he will be gently led by society in a way that is so natural after eons of male interactions that we no longer think of it.
"Maybe Tribal tattoo's isnt your style?"
"Let me help You carry that one!"
"You are so smart, You should work with numbers!"
This guy would have been mildly but clearly led away from a career working with violent male criminals.
Again, I have absolutely nothing against women working in prisons, but before the women do, they need to sort out their damn intra-female-guidance system!!
Because, if a petite girl goes through her upbringing getting patted in the back for ideas leading up to her being broken, mangled and very much dead on a prison floor while a big psychotic man is standing over her with a baton that the other female prison guard provided, something has gone wrong.
But here is the annoying bit, to talk about this is 100% absolutely impossible in the political climate we have over here. You will come off as a pariah, while I after having spent some short years abroad found that enough to notice that it is Sweden who is a political pariah on the international political stage.
So I agree with this Swedish actor, and I see this woman as a casualty for modern Swedish feminism.
And I again stress that my main gripe isn't that something crazy like this happened, my main gripe is that something crazy like this happens and everyone is supposed to look the other way like nothing is wrong. I just find it so hard with this elephant in the room...
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