So you like things simple...hmm.
I like to keep the unnecessary and unhelpful at a remove.

If we should create the maximum well being, then we should be dedicating our lives to helping the 3rd world.
The problem with utilitarianism is that value is internal and personal, as I said. Case in point: I don't see how "helping" the 3rd world per se would create the maximum well-being.

A belief is not a rule.
You have an approach to solving, or approximating solutions to, moral dilemmas - a specific prescribed approach that is not simply "what people do"....I don't suppose we can resolve this. I understand what you're saying, but think you're off on this detail. Let's leave it at that.