Quote Originally Posted by Philipvs Vallindervs Calicvla View Post
The "if I like her" is far more likely if you come from the same ethnic and social group - because you will have more in common.
I'm a hairy Japanese guy with long hair and a beard that listens to death metal. How much more un-Asian can you get?

In my case, the same social group is a more viable factor than same ethnic group. I cannot say the same for the majority of other people, though.