Second one now.
Ok, so maybe my family traditions are meant to foster alpha men... Is that bad by any means?
To use your terminology then, eventhough I don't really believe in it: Can you understand the difficulty of a person raised to be an alpha to accept that he is expected to take care of a beta child and treat it in the beta way?
"Oooooh, did that bad bad boy say something nasty to you son? Come here *warm hug* There there... There is nothing wrong with crying.... just let it out... Ooooooh my poor baby boy. I will call the other boys parents and express my feelings, I am sure they will handle it accordingly."
Sorry, not my style.
I am more the type of guy who would access the kids abilities, give them proper training, and then throw them in the deep end of the pool. I would of course be ready to jump in, but the kid should swallow some gallons trying before i would.
But then, I am used to boys in my family line jumping in at the deep end of the pool when they feel the lust, regardless of age or flotation. I mean, surely, if others can do it so can you? Right?
Sorry for just talking about boys, but we have, like, no girls on my male family line. The closest we got is my cousin, but then she is overly lesbian and in the national hockey team. Don't get me wrong, I love her! Best wing man EVER!!!
EDIT: I don't like terms such as alpha aso... It just doesnt adhere to reality as i see it. Plenty of people are "alpha" in school, to then be complete losers in life. Plenty of people are "beta" in school, and go on to be cool disc jockeys or whatever...
I think everyone is an individual, and the alpha and beta brushes are a bit to broad to use when talking about my specific case. Sure the terms are valid when you talk about the bigger picture, but not when you talk about a single family.
I might be wrong though?
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