Random Thoughts Thread

**Montmorency** · 03-09-2017, 20:11

Originally Posted by Philippus Flavius Homovallumus

OK - this is the kind of thing that gets a pint poured over your head.

Thou summonest me, now what wene the? Or are thou wood?

Last post wasn't directed at you.

Actors post was because they have strikingly-similar faces. Just that.

**Philippus Flavius Homovallumus** · 03-09-2017, 20:14

I don't see it.

In fact I'd go so far as to say they look radically different.

**Hooahguy** · 03-10-2017, 04:03

Just told my ex that I never ever want to see or hear from her again, and finally blocked her on all forms of social media. Feels really really good. Especially after she told me that she dumped me to chase after an engaged guy. What a scumbag, I am so much better off. Past the mourning phase, well into the "I hate her guts" phase.

**Crandar** · 03-10-2017, 10:54

She seems to be such a dear. Almost felt bad for the engaged man, but adultery is morally reprehensible, so if he accepts her, he's definitely deserving that hurricane of immaturity and selfishness that is coming to him.
Anyway, glad to hear that you've already recovered. Credit where credit is due, though, she did her best to appear as despicable as possible.

**Hooahguy** · 03-10-2017, 15:24

She tried to tell me how he broke off his engagement already, but social media and my friends who know him tell me that was a lie, so that really sped up the "getting over her" process too. She deserves everything that is coming to her. Im not sure I would say that I am totally over her yet, as I still think about her more than I should, but its negative thoughts, no pining for her.

**Seamus Fermanagh** · 03-10-2017, 16:48

And who knows, against all the odds your ex and her "otherwise affianced" object of desire may end up happily wedded and enjoying a little white-picket-fenced abode somewhere. My dad got my mom to break an engagement in order to marry him...and they lived happily together for 45 years.

What's demonstrably clear is that YOU cannot connect with her any longer and find her choices unworthy of trust -- and that sense of trust is vital. You are clearly well shut of her.

I would caution you, however, to let go of your hate as rapidly as you may. After nerving you to make the best decision for you, it ceases to have much value and will only weigh on your spirit, not hers. Do not wish her ill, and do not let her memory impinge on your heart. Her future is hers, not yours, and you can rightfully reflect now that "there, but for the grace of God (at least metaphorically, I do not recall if you are a believer), go I."