Quote Originally Posted by the tokai View Post
I am an actual human idiot.

Or possibly just a coward.

Now I'm gonna have to put myself out there even more just because I was too scared to put myself out there in the first place.

I'm still gonna do it though.

Maybe.
The world will move forward with or without you and it won't much care what you do.

Taking an active role for yourself might get you something for yourself, or it might not. Not taking and active role guarantees the 'not' result.

I'd advocate stepping out there despite the fear.


If you ask her and she says 'no,' how are you worse off than never asking?

If you try to make something of yourself and fail are you more greatly harmed than if you'd done nothing but watch things go by?