Girl thread get in here now

**Rhyfelwyr** · 08-11-2013, 16:28

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**Fragony** · 08-12-2013, 08:34

Aren't we in a good mood. Cheer up mate. Just be yourself.

**a completely inoffensive name** · 08-12-2013, 08:47

I am in no position to give you advice. But if I had to.

Assume you done goof'd. Hit the gym, lawyer up and delete your facebook.

**Papewaio** · 08-12-2013, 09:47

The faint of heart will never get the girl.

I got rejected by my wife the first time I asked her out "I can't, I've got exams"

Turns out she actually did have exams.

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The economy in the UK is pretty bad. When the economy is down study and take any job you can. When it picks up to for better options. No one is going to hold it against you for not having a stellar job in this environment. But you'd be surprised how many jobs are available if you cast a wider net.

In the future you can always find a better job. Worse ones are a great inspiration to find better. General rule is he more fun it is the less it pays... That's why dads who are paying a mortgage look so glum.

**caravel** · 08-12-2013, 10:09

I'm not so sure you can solve your problems on a gaming forum... time to get out and see the world.

**rajpoot** · 08-12-2013, 10:32

Originally Posted by asai

I'm not so sure you can solve your problems on a gaming forum... time to get out and see the world.

People in RL are usually less likely to respond and even if you just want them to listen, they need to be brought into a receptive state of mind through use of copious amounts of alcohol.
People on gaming forums on the other hand are usually already drunk so it is easier.

**Rhyfelwyr** · 08-12-2013, 11:42

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**caravel** · 08-12-2013, 14:09

I have no idea, from your description, whether you were too forward or not... it's not about when you ask for a girl's number, it's how you ask for it and in what context - i.e. you need to be getting the right signals, otherwise... I don't think you did anything wrong, but I think you should back off a bit now and see what comes of it. If you do bump into her again, don't mention the number, just talk as you did before and try to take it from there. You will soon get the idea if she's avoiding you.

This is obviously a summary of your current woes, from your perspective:

So I've put myself in a situation where I have no income, no independence, no friends, and generally living in a world I'm not really a part of, and with little prospect of change.

And perhaps that's the general vibe you give off to others?

Instead of bemoaning your lot - find a job, any job (within reason), save some money, make some plans, give yourself something to plan for and look forward to, get some goals to aim for. Walk before you can run.