Girl thread get in here now

[a completely inoffensive name]

Just tell her that if a man does not ejaculate at least once a day, his risk of prostate cancer goes up tremendously. Doesn't she want people to get good healthcare?

[Rhyfelwyr]

On a happier note than the rest of this thread, I have a job interview today so here's hoping all goes well.

[Rhyfelwyr]

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[a completely inoffensive name]

Ask her if your right bicep is smaller than your left bicep. Tell her it's ok if she needs to feel with her hands in order to make a judgement. Then ask if she wants coffee at your place at 10pm tonight.

If that does not work, delete your facebook, hit the gym and lawyer up.

[Fragony]

Here's an update. I didn't see here for a few weeks because she sometimes helps with stuff after the service, but last Sunday she came and initiated conversation with me which I presume is a good sign. She seems keen to talk but this time I left just by saying "see you later" because like I said I wonder if I was forward last time (given the church context).

Anyway, I think the signs are good. So next time I will be direct and suggest an activity and then get her number as MRD says. I don't know what to suggest though. Sometimes it hits home how out of touch I am here, I miss my old circle of headcases, lol. What do normal people do? I have no idea.

Heck do I have to get new clothes for this? All I have is a formal shirt or poverty clothes. Man, I really am out of touch.

Ask her for lunch. Dinner is a bit too much if you are in doubt. Lunch is without any meaning whatsoever.

[Beskar]

Heck do I have to get new clothes for this? All I have is a formal shirt or poverty clothes. Man, I really am out of touch.

Now the weird thing is, there are clothes in-between that.

There are the scrubs/lazy wear, which you only really put on in your house.
Casual wear which you go out and about in, but nothing important.
Smart Casual which you go out somewhere with a purpose/date/friendly catch-up/family gathering
Smart/Suit which you use for formal occasions such as a wedding/etc

Anyway, for activity, go somewhere you can interact. Whilst it is very tempting to go to the cinema, for first days, it is just awkward and you don't end up talking. You could arrange something casual and silly like bowling and you could be mildly entertained, the key is making good company to make it a true and proper time.

Ideal dresscode would be smart-casual or good-casual (depending on activity). Looking like you made somewhat of an effort, being clean, hair done, clothes in good condition, etc. But don't overdress so a passerby might think "Where's the Queen?" and don't look shabby as in "Looks like Rhyfel made zero effort and doesn't care".

Edit:

Actually, Lunch is a great one. You can have a simple bite to eat at a nice cafe or somewhere nice. It is usually not expensive and you get a good opportunity to talk/spend-time together. Find out about her hobbies and interests too. Perhaps she might be a member of English Heritage and you can look around an old church or site of historical interest together (very unlikely, unless you are lucky like my cousin).

[Montmorency]

There are the scrubs/lazy wear, which you only really put on in your house.
Casual wear which you go out and about in, but nothing important.
Smart Casual which you go out somewhere with a purpose/date/friendly catch-up/family gathering
Smart/Suit which you use for formal occasions such as a wedding/etc

I just wear polo shirts every day no matter what. I have like a dozen of them, or more.

[johnhughthom]

Take her to the zoo.

[Fragony]

'Actually, Lunch is a great one. You can have a simple bite to eat at a nice cafe or somewhere nice. It is usually not expensive and you get a good opportunity to talk/spend-time together. Find out about her hobbies and interests too. Perhaps she might be a member of English Heritage and you can look around an old church or site of historical interest together (very unlikely, unless you are lucky like my cousin).,

Your masterplan, you just happen to be around. Can I buy you lunch is completily casual in social nteraction. But you do buy time. She will probably understand what you are doing but she will probably think it's cute. Dress casual.

Edit, and I want you to name your first kid after me as I just made it possible

[Rhyfelwyr]

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[Sp4]

I just wear polo shirts every day no matter what. I have like a dozen of them, or more.

Polo shirts are great.

[a completely inoffensive name]

I wish I had your tenacity Rhy.