im sorry Sasaki, but i think that only moves the problem from who decides what an insult is to what is beautiful/art/true.

also the tactfully you but between () is interesting, because that hints at convention and culture. As you will hear frag say many times, dutch people are considere to be blunt, to the point of rudeness, but why is telling the truth bluntly any worse than telling it tactfully? Asides from the obvious pragmatism, which is only a result of us aparantly not being able to cope with blunt thruths, I dont see a principal point that can be made.