That fits very well with their similar political leadership, doesn't it?
It's like a clash of two hard-headed conservatives...
Eh, well, that's a really bad comparison for a number of reasons.
First of all, I'm pretty sure that NATO also operates or exercises somewhere near the Russin border once in a while, the SAC always had planes in the air ready to head to Russia real quick and bomb a city or two. As for real danger, they don't necessarily have to enter enemy airspace if they have cruise missiles.
Secondly, as you say yourself, they fly close to it, they do not necessarily enter it. If we are being so technical about lines, the Russians never seems to cross the line in Europe so what they do is perfectly fine and happening in international airspace.
Thirdly, Syria is a war zone and Europe and the US are not, these Russian visits are almost like games, in 70 years or so I don't remember anything "going wrong" (meanwhile the US lost a nuke or two over its own territory...) and the pilots almost act like friends unless the Euros happen to be super serious.
And lastly, how can you warn someone ten times if it takes them only 7 seconds to fly through?
Yes, it was partially the fault of the Russians for flying through in the first place, but I assume the Turkish pulled the trigger more out of spite than any legitimate safety concerns.
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