Recently I played as the Danes, the year was 1412 and I owned a little over 60% of the map and had the strongest army and about 12000 florins. But it had't always been so, at one time I was down 60k, Had two civil wars where my lands were split ca 50/50, but thanks to loyalist rebbelions some returned without fighting. Both the swiss and the Burgundians appeared and began taking lands from me. But I never gave up, eventhough I at times doubted that I would manage to get out on top. And I actually conquered the entire map(in 1451). The only time I have given up campaigns where I was playing "seriously" was just before Christmas with the french and the English. Where I just didn't bother.
So what does it take for you to give up on a campaign ?
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