I stuck to a peaceful strategy, and built all my provinces to +80% Farming. This meant I did not have much for miltary buildup, e.g. speramaker, bowyer, etc, were not built until I had +80%.
I kept the peace with all Christian factions, and took up no alliances with Orthodox or Muslim countries. It wasn't until 1150 before I could expand into other provinces. I chose to attack only rebel provinces and was able to expand. This firm foundation enabled me to then build the miltary side of my provinces without depending to much on trade for income.
It is 1267 now, and I have all of HRE, Sweden, Norway, Poland, Hungary, Byzantine, Half of Italy, Half of France, and half of the Russian Provinces. And I still haven't got my Gothic Knights. I will probably finish soon with 60% of the map conquered. I chose to finish then and with 60% of the resources, playing against the remaining factions is not fair play.
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