Boy friend/ Girlfriend issues

**makkyo** · 06-05-2004, 01:38

Here goes.... I need as many opinions as possible before making my final decision about the following:
I, being the ladies-man that I am ;) , have a particularly nasty problem concerning boyfriend/ girlfriend type stuff. While I was at the movies the other day (Day after Tomorrow by the way) I made out with a friend of mine. You would all say to me, Go Makkyo or something like that.... but you shouldn't. She (very blonde and skinny by the way) recently broke up with an other fren of mine and I believe is on the rebound so to speak. All would be fine with that, as I believe that just earned me a girlfriend, but there is another I like/ love (or whatever). In my opinion, she is better looking as well as us being friends since the 5th grade. Beign a good christain girl, she will definately disaprove with what I did and our friendship may be in danger, as well as the fact me and her became closer and closer over this year. Before she comes back on vacation (from Vegas) I need to figure out what to do. Should I just keep the girlfriend that I have (who is very physical) and possibly loose the friendship of one of my best friends, or should I break up (though we never actually asked eachother out) with the blonde girl and try to make things good with my other friend (and hopefully become boyfriend/ gilfriend later)?
I know this is sad that I am expressing my social issues like this to you all, but I'm desprate and need as many opinions as possible.

**Fragony** · 06-05-2004, 01:48

Get the goodlooking one. Most relationships go well untill you try to talk to them anyway, you best have some good sex in the meantime.

**Big King Sanctaphrax** · 06-05-2004, 01:49

I'm not really the person to give advice on this, but don't worry, it's not sad. Most of us do it, including me. Just ask Demon of light.

Anyway, which option gets you more sex?

**makkyo** · 06-05-2004, 01:52

blonde one (she's very easy)
We were almost there to begin with

**Fragony** · 06-05-2004, 01:56

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (makkyo @ June 04 2004,19:52)]blonde one (she's very easy)

**makkyo** · 06-05-2004, 01:58

**RisingSun** · 06-05-2004, 02:41

Go with the hot one. I'm serious. You'll probably end up losing touch with both eventually, get what you can, while you can.

**Lehesu** · 06-05-2004, 05:20

Well makkyo, it is a crisis like this that determines the inner strength of a man's character, his moral strength as well as his ability to look ahead into the future and arm himself with the breastplate of fortitude. You must carefully consider all aspects of the problem and give each piece of information the weight that is merited by its importance. Who do you value more as a friend? Does instant gratification justify possible future regret? These questions, and others like them, must be confronted and dealt with...

Or failing that, do whatever the hell you feel like at any given moment.

**Beirut** · 06-05-2004, 13:27

Rising Sun and Lehesu both speak with great wisdom.

If your Christian girl buddy drops you as a friend because you had yourself some fun, then the girl is not a friend at all.

**ah_dut** · 06-05-2004, 16:32

Do what you like or can (regarding conscience) but heh we all meet dillemas every now and then

**BDC** · 06-05-2004, 17:57

Just follow your gut feeling...

*wow that's useless advice*

**The_Emperor** · 06-05-2004, 18:02

Decide who you want and go for it...

**BDC** · 06-05-2004, 18:14

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (The_Emperor @ June 05 2004,18:02)]Decide who you want and go for it...

Both.

**The_Emperor** · 06-05-2004, 18:19

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (BDC @ June 05 2004,18:14)]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (The_Emperor @ June 05 2004,18:02)]Decide who you want and go for it...

Both.

Hey, he might choose both... I never said he had to ditch one or the other.

Here's to our wives and mistresses, may they never meet

**Teutonic Knight** · 06-05-2004, 19:52

well, since no-one in here seems to have enough of a spine to give you definitive advice here goes.

Break up with the new girl, and stay with the old one. If you've been friends for this long at least you know you're compatible with her, whereas wit the other you don't even know if you'll get along when things get serious.

Plus the new girl seems like a fling to me.

just my 2 cents...

**Big King Sanctaphrax** · 06-05-2004, 19:54

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (Teutonic Knight @ June 05 2004,19:52)]well, since no-one in here seems to have enough of a spine to give you definitive advice here goes.

Break up with the new girl, and stay with the old one. If you've been friends for this long at least you know you're compatible with her, whereas wit the other you don't even know if you'll get along when things get serious.

Plus the new girl seems like a fling to me.

just my 2 cents...

I gave him definitive advice-stay with the one which will give him more sex/is better looking.

**BDC** · 06-05-2004, 19:55

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (Big King Sanctaphrax @ June 05 2004,19:54)]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (Teutonic Knight @ June 05 2004,19:52)]well, since no-one in here seems to have enough of a spine to give you definitive advice here goes.

Break up with the new girl, and stay with the old one. If you've been friends for this long at least you know you're compatible with her, whereas wit the other you don't even know if you'll get along when things get serious.

Plus the new girl seems like a fling to me.

just my 2 cents...

I gave him definitive advice-stay with the one which will give him more sex/is better looking.

But you're Welsh.

**Teutonic Knight** · 06-05-2004, 19:55

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (Big King Sanctaphrax @ June 05 2004,14:54)]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (Teutonic Knight @ June 05 2004,19:52)]well, since no-one in here seems to have enough of a spine to give you definitive advice here goes.

Break up with the new girl, and stay with the old one. If you've been friends for this long at least you know you're compatible with her, whereas wit the other you don't even know if you'll get along when things get serious.

Plus the new girl seems like a fling to me.

just my 2 cents...

I gave him definitive advice-stay with the one which will give him more sex/is better looking.

that's still too wishy-washy, it could be either one...

**Big King Sanctaphrax** · 06-05-2004, 19:58

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (BDC @ June 05 2004,19:55)]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (Big King Sanctaphrax @ June 05 2004,19:54)]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (Teutonic Knight @ June 05 2004,19:52)]well, since no-one in here seems to have enough of a spine to give you definitive advice here goes.

Break up with the new girl, and stay with the old one. If you've been friends for this long at least you know you're compatible with her, whereas wit the other you don't even know if you'll get along when things get serious.

Plus the new girl seems like a fling to me.

just my 2 cents...

I gave him definitive advice-stay with the one which will give him more sex/is better looking.

But you're Welsh.

Have you seen Welsh girls?

AAAAAAAAA'M FRAM CAAAAAAAAAARDIF, I is...

*Shudder*

**Teutonic Knight** · 06-05-2004, 20:02

ROFL

Is that good thing or a bad thing for them?

**Big King Sanctaphrax** · 06-05-2004, 20:04

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (Teutonic Knight @ June 05 2004,20:02)]ROFL

Is that good thing or a bad thing for them?

It's a bad thing for ME

Man, I hate Cardiff accents. Do you know how hard I've had to work to not sound Welsh? Pretty Freakin' hard

**Teutonic Knight** · 06-05-2004, 20:06

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (Big King Sanctaphrax @ June 05 2004,15:04)]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (Teutonic Knight @ June 05 2004,20:02)]ROFL

Is that good thing or a bad thing for them?

It's a bad thing for ME

Man, I hate Cardiff accents. Do you know how hard I've had to work to not sound Welsh? Pretty Freakin' hard

LOL, just look at it this way, you'll get a nice long-term girl in the long run (I think)

The only truly Welsh accent I've heard was that singer (what's his name... Paul Jones or something like that?) and his accent sounded almost Austrian...

**Big King Sanctaphrax** · 06-05-2004, 20:17

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (Teutonic Knight @ June 05 2004,20:06)]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (Big King Sanctaphrax @ June 05 2004,15:04)]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (Teutonic Knight @ June 05 2004,20:02)]ROFL

Is that good thing or a bad thing for them?

It's a bad thing for ME

Man, I hate Cardiff accents. Do you know how hard I've had to work to not sound Welsh? Pretty Freakin' hard

LOL, just look at it this way, you'll get a nice long-term girl in the long run (I think)

The only truly Welsh accent I've heard was that singer (what's his name... Paul Jones or something like that?) and his accent sounded almost Austrian...

Ah, Tom Jones. He actually grew up across the street from my Grandmother.

**Teutonic Knight** · 06-05-2004, 20:24

Tom Jones that's it... I knew it was something Jones....

really, so that's your accent? You sound like a bunch of Austrians?

**Big King Sanctaphrax** · 06-05-2004, 20:25

Erm...Not really...

I'll see if I can find a link to a welsh accent for you.

**Teutonic Knight** · 06-05-2004, 20:27

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (Big King Sanctaphrax @ June 05 2004,15:25)]Erm...Not really...

I'll see if I can find a link to a welsh accent for you.

silly, silly Brits

**Big King Sanctaphrax** · 06-05-2004, 20:31

Nope, can't find one.

I'll try and record one for you.

**Kaatar** · 06-05-2004, 20:33

I think what it comes down to is:

Sex right now and probably for the next month or however long it may be that you break up
or
A long and meaningfl friendship which may or may not eventually turn into a life long partnership.

I know which one I'd go for.

**Teutonic Knight** · 06-05-2004, 20:36

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (Big King Sanctaphrax @ June 05 2004,15:31)]Nope, can't find one.

I'll try and record one for you.

or you could just come on over

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] ]I think what it comes down to is:

Sex right now and probably for the next month or however long it may be that you break up
or
A long and meaningfl friendship which may or may not eventually turn into a life long partnership.

I know which one I'd go for.

exactly.