Navaros is entitled to his point of view, in some ways the world would be a safer place if people followed through with that view.

Sex can be a combination of things. But one thing for sure is if you are not emotionally ready for it, you can cause a massive backlash to yourself if anything goes wrong.

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From my experience as a newly wed. Wasabi and I in the middle of the year told her parents that we where going to get married in the middle of semester... this was the final semester for her. They jumped to conclusions and assumed she was pregnent and a few other why why why?

Now 10 months of marriage later I am getting the opposite questions... why not why not why not... when when when are you having children.

I feel that the difference in support is wonderful. Also for some people they require the social support structure to raise a family, deal with life issues, for day to day support etc. For people in close knit families that support each other pre-marital sex can be a huge problem as it breaks a few rules and hence levels of trust.

This I have observed again and again here in Taiwan where there is minimal social welfare and it is the extended family that looks after individuals in time of need.

Of course in Taiwan the wedding is typically in the same week as the engagement so draw your own conclusions