Its a matter of being civil and mature. To start, message boards ironically are NOT good social mediums. They dont allow tone of voice or body language, something essential to human interaction for thousands of years. The best thing ANYONE can do no matter how mature you are is to REREAD your post before hitting that submit key. Try and think what someone else will feel when they do and try to be as civil and mature as possible. I love that CA reads these posts and I can get a direct link to the minds of the people who made this awesome game. Please dont let the kids and the inepts ruin it for us more social minded people.